"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Skilla_Staz

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Ha i usually do an investigative hand sweep....if i feel the hair...i don't go there
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible_Belt

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1. Saliva makes good lube.

2. Don't ever go down on a girl who has not gone down on you first.

3. Some women are more G-spot oriented; their happy buttons are on the inside and not on the cl!t like most women. You have to move your fingers around inside to make them cvm. When she is on her back, go in and up, and press up against her pelvic bone; this is the 'G-spot' area.
 

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Livinlifehard said:
i ****ing shave down there, so i expect them too also.
so do 90% of gay men. gay men tend to shave lots of places.

men are supposed to be hairy. it is called being masculine.
 

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sparky0000 said:
so do 90% of gay men. gay men tend to shave lots of places.

men are supposed to be hairy. it is called being masculine.
lol, I've just read how most men are insecure over their masculinity. I'll quote a Reader's Digest article.

What lurks behind a man's silent stoic mas? Vulnerability. Most men, experts agree, are far more insecure than they like to admit, or their wives ever guess. "Inside every man is a secret fear that he lacks competence and courage, that he's not as manly as he should be," says Goulston...​

I think living up to these cultural expectations is a bunch s**t. We guys should be ourselves! :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i agree with that article in regards to western men. most are big pusses. just read the posts on this board. the toughest dudes i have ever met are ukraines, russians, and serbians. i am not talking about the wimps who emmigrated to the west. i am talking about the ones who have stayed home and made something of themselves. we could all learn something from them.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GMvKfm8MIpA
this scary dude may have been a "tyrant"...but he was definitely all man. i speak in the past tense because he went down in a shootout.
 

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sparky0000 said:
so do 90% of gay men. gay men tend to shave lots of places.

men are supposed to be hairy. it is called being masculine.
ok well i dont shave my ****ing arms and legs ok, but i do clean up down there... it would be like a forest down there, i am hairy but i like to keep it in check.

You might call me gay... but it aint going to keep me from ****ing ho's so i dont care.
 
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