"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was meeting my friend in the library for doing our group projects.

Our group is about 4-5 people and all are men.

Then, I saw this hot chick sitting alone on the table next to ours

playing her computer notebook.

None of us was bothering to approach her except me.

The question for you guys is Should i approach her?

Two issues here are:

1.Just approach and say hi casually and ask her name or whatever

and get back to work with a group.

2.Approach and then ****ed up like she turned me down

With this, I don't think I am able to sit with my friends doing the work

like nothing has just happened man!


What would u guys do in this situation?


PS I finally approach her when we and her come out of the library.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'd make it really obvious that i was hitting on her but act like i knew i was doing something naughty the whole time by whispering and reprimand her for talking back.

Or if you're feeling really fun, casually write her a note like your in class at school about someone else in the library...just keep it fun.
 
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Mr Wright said:
I'd make it really obvious that i was hitting on her but act like i knew i was doing something naughty the whole time by whispering and reprimand her for talking back.

Or if you're feeling really fun, casually write her a note like your in class at school about someone else in the library...just keep it fun.
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What if you try to initiate the contact with her and she is like

having the facial expression "WTF! you are doing"?

Would you still sit there and act like nothing happened?

Also, would you ask her number right away there?
 
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