"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Library approach

keemojung

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I was meeting my friend in the library for doing our group projects.

Our group is about 4-5 people and all are men.

Then, I saw this hot chick sitting alone on the table next to ours

playing her computer notebook.

None of us was bothering to approach her except me.

The question for you guys is Should i approach her?

Two issues here are:

1.Just approach and say hi casually and ask her name or whatever

and get back to work with a group.

2.Approach and then ****ed up like she turned me down

With this, I don't think I am able to sit with my friends doing the work

like nothing has just happened man!


What would u guys do in this situation?


PS I finally approach her when we and her come out of the library.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mr Wright

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I'd make it really obvious that i was hitting on her but act like i knew i was doing something naughty the whole time by whispering and reprimand her for talking back.

Or if you're feeling really fun, casually write her a note like your in class at school about someone else in the library...just keep it fun.
 

keemojung

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Mr Wright said:
I'd make it really obvious that i was hitting on her but act like i knew i was doing something naughty the whole time by whispering and reprimand her for talking back.

Or if you're feeling really fun, casually write her a note like your in class at school about someone else in the library...just keep it fun.
What if you try to initiate the contact with her and she is like

having the facial expression "WTF! you are doing"?

Would you still sit there and act like nothing happened?

Also, would you ask her number right away there?
 
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