"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Library approach

keemojung

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I was meeting my friend in the library for doing our group projects.

Our group is about 4-5 people and all are men.

Then, I saw this hot chick sitting alone on the table next to ours

playing her computer notebook.

None of us was bothering to approach her except me.

The question for you guys is Should i approach her?

Two issues here are:

1.Just approach and say hi casually and ask her name or whatever

and get back to work with a group.

2.Approach and then ****ed up like she turned me down

With this, I don't think I am able to sit with my friends doing the work

like nothing has just happened man!


What would u guys do in this situation?


PS I finally approach her when we and her come out of the library.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'd make it really obvious that i was hitting on her but act like i knew i was doing something naughty the whole time by whispering and reprimand her for talking back.

Or if you're feeling really fun, casually write her a note like your in class at school about someone else in the library...just keep it fun.
 

keemojung

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Mr Wright said:
I'd make it really obvious that i was hitting on her but act like i knew i was doing something naughty the whole time by whispering and reprimand her for talking back.

Or if you're feeling really fun, casually write her a note like your in class at school about someone else in the library...just keep it fun.
What if you try to initiate the contact with her and she is like

having the facial expression "WTF! you are doing"?

Would you still sit there and act like nothing happened?

Also, would you ask her number right away there?
 
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