"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Libido?

The Gamer

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Hey fellas I got a question for you all. Just need your opinion and what you experience.

I've read around here that your SUPPOSED to be waking up with boners and get a woody at least twice during the day to dictate you have a strong libido. Well, I hate to say I don't get any of these and having since I was like 17, I'm 23 now. I don't get horny in public really AT ALL. I think it might have something to do with me always since a young age thinking I should be hiding my sexualtiy and I've surpressed it for so long it's effecting me like this. I mean I still get horny when looking at porn or on a 1on1 situation were i'm intimate but I feel sexually shut off in public and really don't have much of a sexual urge now adays and I feel I'm too young for that to be the case? need opinions fellas. lemme know what you think.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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search1ng

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i usually have a boner in the morning cause i need to take a piss..haha, I get erections at the weirdest of times... honestly, as long as it's working and doing it's job, why worry?
 

wolf116

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Thank yourself lucky! It's not cool walking around a mall or the beach with a hard-on.
 

thedeparted

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You only need it to work with the girl. The less desire you feel the rest of the time the more successful you'll be. Sounds like your situation is pretty good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Gamer

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^Right on.

Funny how us humans like to make problems out out of anything and everything, even things that with more perspective are GOOD.

bahahaha...thx fellas.
 
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