"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Libido?

The Gamer

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Hey fellas I got a question for you all. Just need your opinion and what you experience.

I've read around here that your SUPPOSED to be waking up with boners and get a woody at least twice during the day to dictate you have a strong libido. Well, I hate to say I don't get any of these and having since I was like 17, I'm 23 now. I don't get horny in public really AT ALL. I think it might have something to do with me always since a young age thinking I should be hiding my sexualtiy and I've surpressed it for so long it's effecting me like this. I mean I still get horny when looking at porn or on a 1on1 situation were i'm intimate but I feel sexually shut off in public and really don't have much of a sexual urge now adays and I feel I'm too young for that to be the case? need opinions fellas. lemme know what you think.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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search1ng

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i usually have a boner in the morning cause i need to take a piss..haha, I get erections at the weirdest of times... honestly, as long as it's working and doing it's job, why worry?
 

wolf116

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Thank yourself lucky! It's not cool walking around a mall or the beach with a hard-on.
 

thedeparted

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You only need it to work with the girl. The less desire you feel the rest of the time the more successful you'll be. Sounds like your situation is pretty good.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Gamer

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^Right on.

Funny how us humans like to make problems out out of anything and everything, even things that with more perspective are GOOD.

bahahaha...thx fellas.
 
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