"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Libido?

The Gamer

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Hey fellas I got a question for you all. Just need your opinion and what you experience.

I've read around here that your SUPPOSED to be waking up with boners and get a woody at least twice during the day to dictate you have a strong libido. Well, I hate to say I don't get any of these and having since I was like 17, I'm 23 now. I don't get horny in public really AT ALL. I think it might have something to do with me always since a young age thinking I should be hiding my sexualtiy and I've surpressed it for so long it's effecting me like this. I mean I still get horny when looking at porn or on a 1on1 situation were i'm intimate but I feel sexually shut off in public and really don't have much of a sexual urge now adays and I feel I'm too young for that to be the case? need opinions fellas. lemme know what you think.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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search1ng

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i usually have a boner in the morning cause i need to take a piss..haha, I get erections at the weirdest of times... honestly, as long as it's working and doing it's job, why worry?
 

wolf116

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Thank yourself lucky! It's not cool walking around a mall or the beach with a hard-on.
 

thedeparted

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You only need it to work with the girl. The less desire you feel the rest of the time the more successful you'll be. Sounds like your situation is pretty good.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Gamer

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^Right on.

Funny how us humans like to make problems out out of anything and everything, even things that with more perspective are GOOD.

bahahaha...thx fellas.
 
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