"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Libido?

The Gamer

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Hey fellas I got a question for you all. Just need your opinion and what you experience.

I've read around here that your SUPPOSED to be waking up with boners and get a woody at least twice during the day to dictate you have a strong libido. Well, I hate to say I don't get any of these and having since I was like 17, I'm 23 now. I don't get horny in public really AT ALL. I think it might have something to do with me always since a young age thinking I should be hiding my sexualtiy and I've surpressed it for so long it's effecting me like this. I mean I still get horny when looking at porn or on a 1on1 situation were i'm intimate but I feel sexually shut off in public and really don't have much of a sexual urge now adays and I feel I'm too young for that to be the case? need opinions fellas. lemme know what you think.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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search1ng

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i usually have a boner in the morning cause i need to take a piss..haha, I get erections at the weirdest of times... honestly, as long as it's working and doing it's job, why worry?
 

wolf116

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Thank yourself lucky! It's not cool walking around a mall or the beach with a hard-on.
 

thedeparted

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You only need it to work with the girl. The less desire you feel the rest of the time the more successful you'll be. Sounds like your situation is pretty good.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Gamer

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^Right on.

Funny how us humans like to make problems out out of anything and everything, even things that with more perspective are GOOD.

bahahaha...thx fellas.
 
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