"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Liberating Feeling

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Just wanted to share with you guys that it is such a liberating experience where your inner game has progressed so much to where you no longer associate or allow negative feelings of others and your spouse bring you down to their level and make you feel like they are.

Where you are in control of your own happiness, your own direction in life and your own emotions.

Where you are able to recognize and not let your self be pulled into a negative turmoil of someone elses problems.

You can think more clear, act with best intention to yourself and to others and without letting your ego get in the way.

Its simply amazing.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KontrollerX

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Sounds like you've attained enlightenment heh heh.

Congrats man.

The only one we can truly control in life is ourself and our thoughts if we put the work in and you have clearly done that well.
 
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great to hear!

one of the most enlightening things to realize in life is that you are in control of you.

most people, i'd argue upwards of 90% or more, both good, bad and inbetween people, don't know this. and actually, even those who do forget it at times.

you can't control what happens in the world around you, but you have 100% control over how you react to it.
 
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Yeah, it's definitely a sort of satori. Good on you, man! :up:
 
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Bourne said:
Just wanted to share with you guys that it is such a liberating experience where your inner game has progressed so much to where you no longer associate or allow negative feelings of others and your spouse bring you down to their level and make you feel like they are.

Where you are in control of your own happiness, your own direction in life and your own emotions.

Where you are able to recognize and not let your self be pulled into a negative turmoil of someone elses problems.

You can think more clear, act with best intention to yourself and to others and without letting your ego get in the way.

Its simply amazing.
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Dude, don't leave me hanging, how did you get there? Help a brother out...

Taiyuu
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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