"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just wanted to share with you guys that it is such a liberating experience where your inner game has progressed so much to where you no longer associate or allow negative feelings of others and your spouse bring you down to their level and make you feel like they are.

Where you are in control of your own happiness, your own direction in life and your own emotions.

Where you are able to recognize and not let your self be pulled into a negative turmoil of someone elses problems.

You can think more clear, act with best intention to yourself and to others and without letting your ego get in the way.

Its simply amazing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sounds like you've attained enlightenment heh heh.

Congrats man.

The only one we can truly control in life is ourself and our thoughts if we put the work in and you have clearly done that well.
 
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great to hear!

one of the most enlightening things to realize in life is that you are in control of you.

most people, i'd argue upwards of 90% or more, both good, bad and inbetween people, don't know this. and actually, even those who do forget it at times.

you can't control what happens in the world around you, but you have 100% control over how you react to it.
 
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Yeah, it's definitely a sort of satori. Good on you, man! :up:
 
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Bourne said:
Just wanted to share with you guys that it is such a liberating experience where your inner game has progressed so much to where you no longer associate or allow negative feelings of others and your spouse bring you down to their level and make you feel like they are.

Where you are in control of your own happiness, your own direction in life and your own emotions.

Where you are able to recognize and not let your self be pulled into a negative turmoil of someone elses problems.

You can think more clear, act with best intention to yourself and to others and without letting your ego get in the way.

Its simply amazing.
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Dude, don't leave me hanging, how did you get there? Help a brother out...

Taiyuu
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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