"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Liberating Feeling

Bourne

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Just wanted to share with you guys that it is such a liberating experience where your inner game has progressed so much to where you no longer associate or allow negative feelings of others and your spouse bring you down to their level and make you feel like they are.

Where you are in control of your own happiness, your own direction in life and your own emotions.

Where you are able to recognize and not let your self be pulled into a negative turmoil of someone elses problems.

You can think more clear, act with best intention to yourself and to others and without letting your ego get in the way.

Its simply amazing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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KontrollerX

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Sounds like you've attained enlightenment heh heh.

Congrats man.

The only one we can truly control in life is ourself and our thoughts if we put the work in and you have clearly done that well.
 

joekerr31

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great to hear!

one of the most enlightening things to realize in life is that you are in control of you.

most people, i'd argue upwards of 90% or more, both good, bad and inbetween people, don't know this. and actually, even those who do forget it at times.

you can't control what happens in the world around you, but you have 100% control over how you react to it.
 

Bonhomme

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Yeah, it's definitely a sort of satori. Good on you, man! :up:
 

taiyuu_otoko

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Bourne said:
Just wanted to share with you guys that it is such a liberating experience where your inner game has progressed so much to where you no longer associate or allow negative feelings of others and your spouse bring you down to their level and make you feel like they are.

Where you are in control of your own happiness, your own direction in life and your own emotions.

Where you are able to recognize and not let your self be pulled into a negative turmoil of someone elses problems.

You can think more clear, act with best intention to yourself and to others and without letting your ego get in the way.

Its simply amazing.
Dude, don't leave me hanging, how did you get there? Help a brother out...

Taiyuu
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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