You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Sometimes it is puzzling why a few rich businessmen are liberals. I think it's "wealth guilt" to coin a term. They think they need to be on the liberal side to compensate for being the "big bad rich guy." Whatever floats their boat.speed dawg said:Hey, I'll give them one thing.....they stand firm to their ideology, even if it means less profits. They believe in what they are doing.
To see a guy who built a company like Costco as a liberal is sort of surprising to me. The party that was built on jealousy.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Very insightful. Agreed.Danger said:PC is definitely one reason.....but if you look at the leftist ideology, it makes it very difficult to rise to the top when you are getting bled to death.
Now, put yourself at the top of the position with a lot of rich business and elites.....they already reached the top. How do they stay there? Making it hard for anyone else to climb afterwards in their footsteps.
That's an apt explanation. Is there anything more hypocritical or more loathsome than a wealthy and powerful white male who espouses the liberal agenda, like say a US senator, talk show host or CEO ? They're willing to throw everyone else that fits their identity under the bus with their support of things like affirmative action, but they hold to their position of power and wealth themselves. Then most reprehensible and hypocritical, they smugly claim the moral high ground for "supporting disadvantaged" women and non-whiteys.Danger said:Now, put yourself at the top of the position with a lot of rich business and elites.....they already reached the top. How do they stay there? Making it hard for anyone else to climb afterwards in their footsteps.
Can't really say it any better than this.Stagger Lee said:That's an apt explanation. Is there anything more hypocritical or more loathsome than a wealthy and powerful white male who espouses the liberal agenda, like say a US senator, talk show host or CEO ? They're willing to throw everyone else that fits their identity under the bus with their support of things like affirmative action, but they hold to their position of power and wealth themselves. Then most reprehensible and hypocritical, they smugly claim the moral high ground for "supporting disadvantaged" women and non-whiteys.
All liberals play the "privileged white male" and apex fallacy card, and it's hypocritical when women Senators and non-whitey President does it, but extra hypocritical when say Harry Reid, Joe Biden or Warren Buffet does it.
F*ck yes.noobolgy said:Would you guys say the European Union and/ or the u.k. is very liberal in their ideologies?
Yes, absolutely.noobolgy said:Would you guys say the European Union and/ or the u.k. is very liberal in their ideologies?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
speed dawg said:F*ck yes.
Then they are slaves. Or its basically a cast system, complete with hypergamy on steroids.Mike32ct said:Yes, absolutely.