Letting a girl down easy after a one night stand

[Egoist]

i always suck at this..

f-closed last night, and dont want to see her again.. she was sorta into me though.

so i dont wanna be the ass like usually when i just disappear and dont answer the calls.

Instead, should i just feed her some BS like "Oh, it was wonderful, but it made me realize that I am still not over my ex-girlfriend" ?

or any other ideas?

 

[locarius]

Uh how about dont have one night stands with women if you do not want to hurt them.

Be a ****ing man and tell her.

 

[Immaculate]

Just tell her the truth. Don't lie. How often do you have one night stands man? Is she hot?

 

[NSUballer]

HAHA guilty conscience huh.....

Just be like I was really drunk last night or if you were not drunk tell her ur not looking for a relationship right now. Or you could be daring and say that you made a mistake but that could turn out bad or use the girlfriend excuse.

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by locarius
Uh how about dont have one night stands with women if you do not want to hurt them.

Be a ****ing man and tell her.

what the **** kind of a reply is it???

uhm, i didnt pressure her into it or made her do anything she didnt want to. We are both adults, and we did it.

I am just being nice in thinking about it, i mean logically i don't owe her anything because nothing was promised.

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by Immaculate
Just tell her the truth. Don't lie. How often do you have one night stands man? Is she hot?

i've had a few one night stands this year since breaking up with a very-LTR early spring.

Its always the same, meet a girl through friends or online, meet up for drinks or at her house, f-close that night, lose interest the next day.

i dont lie or cheat and always use protection though. but its getting kinda old.

 

[Egoist]

p.s. its scary how much your mentality changes once you become aware of certain things.. I didn't even particularly want to **** her, it was just out of principle cause she put up her slut defenses a few times when i walked her home..

so of course, being naturally competitive, i was kinda like "oh, resist me?" and ended up banging a chick i didnt really wanna bang..

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by Immaculate
Just tell her the truth. Don't lie. How often do you have one night stands man? Is she hot?

she'd be an eight, except she's a little curvy, so i dont know how the system works here.. 7 years older than me also..

 

[Centaurion]

Originally posted by Egoist
p.s. its scary how much your mentality changes once you become aware of certain things.. I didn't even particularly want to **** her, it was just out of principle cause she put up her slut defenses a few times when i walked her home..

lol been there done that. I've ****ed a couple of *****es just out of principle, even though I wasn't particularly attracted to them.

Anyways, how you let her go depends on if you are in a situation where you might bump into her again. If there is a possibility that your paths may cross, go with something along the lines of 'it was really nice last night, but I'm not ready for a commitment'. If you're never gonna see her again, just loose her number.

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by Centaurion
lol been there done that. I've ****ed a couple of *****es just out of principle, even though I wasn't particularly attracted to them.

Anyways, how you let her go depends on if you are in a situation where you might bump into her again. If there is a possibility that your paths may cross, go with something along the lines of 'it was really nice last night, but I'm not ready for a commitment'. If you're never gonna see her again, just loose her number.

well i dont know, i sorta believe in karma.. at least if i drop her in the nice way the chances that i will one day find out she is a psycho stalker are somewhat less....