“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Let's Talk About Strength

TheSlasher

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When the word "strength" and/or "power" comes into play, what gets into your mind?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Power and strength are different. Power and Authority are different. Authority seeks to accomplish, power seeks to control. Strength is a tool to do either, and is founded in self discipline.
 

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MOTU said:
Power and strength are different. Power and Authority are different. Authority seeks to accomplish, power seeks to control. Strength is a tool to do either, and is founded in self discipline.
Hi MOTU. Thanks for the reply. Your remark on the difference between authority and power reminded me of a chapter from Robert Greene and 50 Cent's The 50th Law, and also of Greene's The 48 Laws of Power, and ultimately, your remark on strength reminded me of his most recent book to date, Mastery. Since strength is the foundation of both, and its foundation is self-discipline, how do you propose could I improve more on my self-discipline? Based on my own experience, I find it lacking that all I have to do is a strict schedule, my emotions had to be engaged on the activity as well. That being said, do you also have other ways on how I can improve this? And do you think there are different kinds of strength that I should know of and improve in myself?

Thanks!
 

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This topic is good for me too Slasher. My self discipline is very good when it comes to things that I want to do but are difficult. But not so good on things that I don't see value in but know that I still need to do. I also struggle with self discipline when it comes to eating and drinking... while I have significantly improved in this area, I still tend to be impulsive.

I think strength, honor, integrity and self control are things that you *live* every day... not things that you accomplish at some point and then move on. The mere fact that you are thinking about this, and value your own character, will help keep you on the right path.
 

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True, one of my problems now is persistence. For example, I could start studying but one point, I'd get tired and so stop for a while, and unknowingly, I'd be stopping altogether. By the way, I think the most difficult part when it comes to harnessing our discipline is starting, except for resuming after a break.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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