"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Let's Talk About Strength

TheSlasher

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When the word "strength" and/or "power" comes into play, what gets into your mind?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Power and strength are different. Power and Authority are different. Authority seeks to accomplish, power seeks to control. Strength is a tool to do either, and is founded in self discipline.
 

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MOTU said:
Power and strength are different. Power and Authority are different. Authority seeks to accomplish, power seeks to control. Strength is a tool to do either, and is founded in self discipline.
Hi MOTU. Thanks for the reply. Your remark on the difference between authority and power reminded me of a chapter from Robert Greene and 50 Cent's The 50th Law, and also of Greene's The 48 Laws of Power, and ultimately, your remark on strength reminded me of his most recent book to date, Mastery. Since strength is the foundation of both, and its foundation is self-discipline, how do you propose could I improve more on my self-discipline? Based on my own experience, I find it lacking that all I have to do is a strict schedule, my emotions had to be engaged on the activity as well. That being said, do you also have other ways on how I can improve this? And do you think there are different kinds of strength that I should know of and improve in myself?

Thanks!
 

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This topic is good for me too Slasher. My self discipline is very good when it comes to things that I want to do but are difficult. But not so good on things that I don't see value in but know that I still need to do. I also struggle with self discipline when it comes to eating and drinking... while I have significantly improved in this area, I still tend to be impulsive.

I think strength, honor, integrity and self control are things that you *live* every day... not things that you accomplish at some point and then move on. The mere fact that you are thinking about this, and value your own character, will help keep you on the right path.
 

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True, one of my problems now is persistence. For example, I could start studying but one point, I'd get tired and so stop for a while, and unknowingly, I'd be stopping altogether. By the way, I think the most difficult part when it comes to harnessing our discipline is starting, except for resuming after a break.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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