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EspiEspi said:That guy's a freak.. my hat's off to him...rarely do you see a man of his size doing pulls...
Jesse Marunde is one of the strongest people around. Check his site for more of his lifts.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
EspiEspi said:That guy's a freak.. my hat's off to him...rarely do you see a man of his size doing pulls...
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
When he's not leading all catchers in HRs, that is...Espi said:I've read that IFBB elite bodybuilder Victor Martinez (270 lbs. in the offseason) performs dozens of pulls...slow pulls, too.
Seconded. I'm a big fan.stronglifts said:Jesse Marunde is one of the strongest people around. Check his site for more of his lifts.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No sacrifice,no victory.djtdot said:I can't stop myself from eating cookies and cakes and chocolates etc.
blinkwatt said:Here is a new pic.
I'm pretty tan,haven't lifted since Noon,it's now 9p.m. I'm trying HARD to develop my outer chest.
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l13/blinkwatt/PICT0914.jpg
*Edit
Sorry about the lighting,a darn light bulb was out in my room,here is a revision.
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l13/blinkwatt/CopyofPICT0920.jpg
The lady at the gym who checked my bodyfat said the calipers read 7.5-8%(they have a 1-2% margin of error) but she thinks it's wrong. The calipers don't take into account height,which she thinks if it did I would be in the 6% but none-the-less I'm gonna stay on track.
I decided that I'm losing bodyfat too fast,even without cardio. To slow down how fast I'm losing bodyfat I started putting my tuna into 2 small corn tortillas for lunch at work.
Feel free to critique.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeah I will have to take a similar pic to really the compare the two. My pic was at too much on an angle.Espi said:You resemble the model...notice that his lats and shoulders are wider, though.![]()
or every dayEspi said:...give yourself a cheat day or two every week....
seconded!Espi said:DONT GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!
how much do you weigh and how tall are you?blinkwatt said:Here is a new pic.
I'm pretty tan,haven't lifted since Noon,it's now 9p.m. I'm trying HARD to develop my outer chest.
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l13/blinkwatt/PICT0914.jpg
*Edit
Sorry about the lighting,a darn light bulb was out in my room,here is a revision.
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l13/blinkwatt/CopyofPICT0920.jpg
The lady at the gym who checked my bodyfat said the calipers read 7.5-8%(they have a 1-2% margin of error) but she thinks it's wrong. The calipers don't take into account height,which she thinks if it did I would be in the 6% but none-the-less I'm gonna stay on track.
I decided that I'm losing bodyfat too fast,even without cardio. To slow down how fast I'm losing bodyfat I started putting my tuna into 2 small corn tortillas for lunch at work.
Feel free to critique.
haha but don't get me wrong u look a lot better than meblinkwatt said:how much do you weigh and how tall are you?
5 8",139lbs @ 7.5%ish bodyfat.
you definitely need some more mass on your frame. Sure you got some abs... but those are only good for the beach in the summer time.
Yep,that's pretty much all they do. I don't even like my abs that much to be honest,I'm trying anything and everything to get them to be flat.
I bet you look just average in a t-shirt.
Yeah pretty much,I don't wear tight shirts or anything like that.
You have any t-shirt pics?
Yeah they are on my Facebook,it was linked on here awhile back.
Otherwise, everything is proportioned and you look great
Thanks.
I appreciate your time and input.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.