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Master Don Juan
EspiEspi said:That guy's a freak.. my hat's off to him...rarely do you see a man of his size doing pulls...
Jesse Marunde is one of the strongest people around. Check his site for more of his lifts.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
EspiEspi said:That guy's a freak.. my hat's off to him...rarely do you see a man of his size doing pulls...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When he's not leading all catchers in HRs, that is...Espi said:I've read that IFBB elite bodybuilder Victor Martinez (270 lbs. in the offseason) performs dozens of pulls...slow pulls, too.
Seconded. I'm a big fan.stronglifts said:Jesse Marunde is one of the strongest people around. Check his site for more of his lifts.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
No sacrifice,no victory.djtdot said:I can't stop myself from eating cookies and cakes and chocolates etc.
blinkwatt said:Here is a new pic.
I'm pretty tan,haven't lifted since Noon,it's now 9p.m. I'm trying HARD to develop my outer chest.
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l13/blinkwatt/PICT0914.jpg
*Edit
Sorry about the lighting,a darn light bulb was out in my room,here is a revision.
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l13/blinkwatt/CopyofPICT0920.jpg
The lady at the gym who checked my bodyfat said the calipers read 7.5-8%(they have a 1-2% margin of error) but she thinks it's wrong. The calipers don't take into account height,which she thinks if it did I would be in the 6% but none-the-less I'm gonna stay on track.
I decided that I'm losing bodyfat too fast,even without cardio. To slow down how fast I'm losing bodyfat I started putting my tuna into 2 small corn tortillas for lunch at work.
Feel free to critique.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yeah I will have to take a similar pic to really the compare the two. My pic was at too much on an angle.Espi said:You resemble the model...notice that his lats and shoulders are wider, though.![]()
or every dayEspi said:...give yourself a cheat day or two every week....
seconded!Espi said:DONT GIVE UP!!!!!!!!!
how much do you weigh and how tall are you?blinkwatt said:Here is a new pic.
I'm pretty tan,haven't lifted since Noon,it's now 9p.m. I'm trying HARD to develop my outer chest.
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l13/blinkwatt/PICT0914.jpg
*Edit
Sorry about the lighting,a darn light bulb was out in my room,here is a revision.
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l13/blinkwatt/CopyofPICT0920.jpg
The lady at the gym who checked my bodyfat said the calipers read 7.5-8%(they have a 1-2% margin of error) but she thinks it's wrong. The calipers don't take into account height,which she thinks if it did I would be in the 6% but none-the-less I'm gonna stay on track.
I decided that I'm losing bodyfat too fast,even without cardio. To slow down how fast I'm losing bodyfat I started putting my tuna into 2 small corn tortillas for lunch at work.
Feel free to critique.
haha but don't get me wrong u look a lot better than meblinkwatt said:how much do you weigh and how tall are you?
5 8",139lbs @ 7.5%ish bodyfat.
you definitely need some more mass on your frame. Sure you got some abs... but those are only good for the beach in the summer time.
Yep,that's pretty much all they do. I don't even like my abs that much to be honest,I'm trying anything and everything to get them to be flat.
I bet you look just average in a t-shirt.
Yeah pretty much,I don't wear tight shirts or anything like that.
You have any t-shirt pics?
Yeah they are on my Facebook,it was linked on here awhile back.
Otherwise, everything is proportioned and you look great
Thanks.
I appreciate your time and input.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.