Agent Zero
Don Juan
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Do you wax your chest blink?
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Nope. Just shave it with the trim part of my electric razor every week or so.Agent Zero said:Do you wax your chest blink?
Dude that's not bad. How long have you been lifting? Shave that chest,your aren't a caveman.Agent Zero said:What you guys think of my build? 6'3" 200 lbs.
I've been lifting for like 10 years probably, but just starting to get more serious.blinkwatt said:Dude that's not bad. How long have you been lifting? Shave that chest,your aren't a caveman.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=vM-b4qOOWsEEspi said:What are rack chins?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I think this may have happened to me. I have a very puny physique, then starting 9th grade I'd do alot of pullups on my door. By the end of my senior year, I was still really skinny, but people said I had 'broad shoulders'.Warboss Alex said:it can be done while you're still young and the bone structure is fairly pliable. it can however screw you up if you overdo it.
Here's a video of my doing a clean grip snatch not wearing a t-shirtblinkwatt said:Since everyone on here acts like they are "hubbed up/huge/muscular" let's see who can walk the walk,and who is just talking to talk. Add how long you have been lifting,list supplements(if you are taking any) and you protein intake daily.
Here is mine,lifting overall for a year(had no clue what I was doing first 6 months),no supplements and I weight 150 and take in 200-225 grams of protein a day,no lifting within 24 hours of this picture;
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l13/blinkwatt/CopyofPICT0320.jpg
You want critique, here it is:blinkwatt said:New updated pics,no workout in 2 days,no pump,already ate 3 meals and 2 snacks. I only sleep 6-7.5 hours a night,I NEVER MISS A DAY IN THE GYM and I never eat anything I know I shouldn't. Not bad for only eating healthy for 7 months.
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l13/blinkwatt/Copyof051907.jpg
Feel free to critique.
Tnx Espi. 5'8" , 165lbs.Espi said:Nice work, SL. Your weight and height?
Thanks.stronglifts said:You want critique, here it is:
I think you need more traps & back. I suspect you neglect exercises such as rows/chinups/power cleans/...
And I think you're holding water.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Stronglifts, it looks like your arms are to close to your legs, and you should have made the catch later in a deeper squat. technically that is a failed lift.Espi said:Nice work, SL. Your weight and height?
Drumb&Bass,Drum&Bass said:Stronglifts, it looks like your arms are to close to your legs, and you should have made the catch later in a deeper squat. technically that is a failed lift.
Espi said:Ahhhh...I've seen those done...pretty cool, but I can't imagine those are more effective than regular pulls.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
After reading this article by Charles Poliquin, namely the section labeled "HCl: You Are What You Assimilate!" (just search down for it), I decided to take the test since the digestive enzymes are cheap.Espi said:I eat a lot of veggies...Birdseye Steamfresh bags are the best...however, when I eat a lot (i.e. 4,000-5,000 cals a day), I'm always crapping. I've never had a problem digesting my food.
How can you tell if you're deficient? Well, you most likely are! But there is a very cheap test you can do to be sure. You buy this stuff called Zinc Tally, which is basically liquid zinc. You put it in your mouth and if you're normal it tastes like a liquefied metal car bumper. But when we ask the athletes who come into my centers what it tastes like, they'll say it tastes like water. They're so deficient they can't perceive there's any zinc in the solution.
I don't see any benefit of doing rack chins vs pullups. Feel free to post them if you have them. To me pullups are superior.mrRuckus said:The DC guys swear by them. They're easier to add weight and reps to than pullups.... and progression is pretty much the whole point.
I pretty much suck at pullups and haven't done rack chins for a long time. For some reason i'm a hell of a bent over rower though. I really should start doing pullups and rack chins more often. I think a really good benefit of rack chins is if you really can't do any pullups yet since you can progress on rack chins to the point where you can actually do pullups for reps.
When I do pullups i really don't get progression. I can get anywhere from 6-8 at bodyweight for my first set then maybe 3 or 4 on the following sets. Then the next week I get about the same thing (maybe 1 more rep, sometimes 1 less), usually based on how tired/sore my biceps are. I've only recently been doing them, though. I think rack chins don't involve the biceps as much but i'm not sure. I hate the pullup assistance machine. It just feels awkward.
Jesse Marunde, doing 21 pullups at 316lbs bodyweight, check his technique btw: http://marunde-muscle.com/videos/316BWx21wide_chins.MOVEspi said:IMO, if you're heavy, pulls are going to be hard.
Exactly, it makes the exercise easier by eliminating lower body weight. I'd give this exercise to a beginner who can not perform normal pullups. Funny enough the rack chins video posted was weighted. Why not simply doing them full rom weighted...The rack chins may well work; however, they are, of course, performed horizontally, thereby eliminating the extra burden of lower body weight; in my mind, pulling less weight seems like an easier way out, kind of like relying on the lat pulldown machine instead of pullups.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.