"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Since everyone on here acts like they are "hubbed up/huge/muscular" let's see who can walk the walk,and who is just talking to talk. Add how long you have been lifting,list supplements(if you are taking any) and you protein intake daily.

Here is mine,lifting overall for a year(had no clue what I was doing first 6 months),no supplements and I weight 150 and take in 200-225 grams of protein a day,no lifting within 24 hours of this picture;
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l13/blinkwatt/CopyofPICT0320.jpg
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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shagnscoob

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you weigh 150 in that picture? how tall are you?
 

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I'll try to post a pic when i've got the time.. I'm guessing he's about 5 ft 10
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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looking good, I'd reccomend a bulk (albeit a super clean one) ;)
 

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howardalex said:
looking good, I'd reccomend a bulk (albeit a super clean one) ;)
Bulking?! There is no such thing in my "diet"! Just eat lean with large amounts of protein and you will gain pure muscle in no time.

My list of foods I eat;
-EGGS(1 WHOLE EGG,4 EGG WHITES)
-STRAWBERRY SPECIAL K CEREAL
-SKINLESS CHICKEN BREAST
-TUNA/TUNA SALAD
-HAMBURGERS MADE WITH THE LEANEST BEEF AVAILABLE MADE VIA GEORGE FOREMAN
-CHEESE/HAM/TURKEY/CHICKEN SANDWHICH(NO MAYO)
-LOAF OF BREAD/DELI LOAF(DO NOT EAT IN THE AFTERNOON OR FOR DINNER,THOSE CARBS WILL TURN INTO FAT DURING YOUR SLEEP)

Things I drink;
-FAT FREE MILK
-WATER

It's not hard,bodybuilding is how you eat more then anything.
 

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Come on,I can't be the only person on this board who has taken progress pics as they have gotten bigger.
 

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i wish i had taken a before pick, ive put on 15 pounds since october
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've taken progress pics, but I've only been lifting (and inconsistently) for 3 months or so, with a horrendous diet...

:(

I'm still skinny and not quite so muscular.
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
I've taken progress pics, but I've only been lifting (and inconsistently) for 3 months or so, with a horrendous diet
Your consistency in the gym(not how hard you lift) and diet are more important then lifting hard or sleeping for 8+ hours a day,try to work on that and trust me,you will see gains.
 

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Yeh. It's easier said than done though. I constantly stress the importance of diet and rest to my friends, yet, I find myself constantly breaking my own advice.
 

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Yeh. It's easier said than done though. I constantly stress the importance of diet and rest to my friends, yet, I find myself constantly breaking my own advice.
Hey Skilla, I've been noticing your posts around, and for your age (and weight), you're pretty clued up on training, and you're strong. But as you've said here and a few times before, your diet is crap. Man, what's holding you back on the eating? Money, time, the effort?

-shaun
 

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blinkwatt said:
Your consistency in the gym(not how hard you lift) and diet are more important then lifting hard or sleeping for 8+ hours a day,try to work on that and trust me,you will see gains.
I don't mean to bust on you but when you're 150 lbs wet would you mind not talking like you're some authority?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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http://i138.photobucket.com/albums/q251/kr1sg/foto064.jpg

That's me, 20 yrs old, about 5.9, 150 lbs. No workout in the past week, muscles a bit flexed. Not eating particulary healthy..
Just taking an occasional protein shake after a workout..

I don't want to get like HUGE and buffed so i'm just trying to get a better v-shape and more muscle definition..
 

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mrRuckus said:
I don't mean to bust on you but when you're 150 lbs wet would you mind not talking like you're some authority?
Funny how you make that comment yet I still lift more then you by looking at your workout journal,and I do more reps in my sets. The only workout it looks like you do more then me in is squatting,but let me ask you this,does your butt come within a foot of touching the ground when you squat? I can do sets of above 275lbs. when I don't do full extension squats but only 155lbs when I do them the proper way. By the way muscle weights more then fat,which is why I weight 150 at my height. Have a nice day!
 

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guys lets not get on each others case, the reasons we lift are all different, no need to make this a competition, if you wanna do that start a "who can lift more than me thread".

good results guys, keep it going.
 

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Zaraza said:
guys lets not get on each others case, the reasons we lift are all different, no need to make this a competition,
Yes how very true you are. I posted this thread because there are way too many people here claiming that they are "huge/hubbed up/beef'd",I just want to know who is where.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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