"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Since everyone on here acts like they are "hubbed up/huge/muscular" let's see who can walk the walk,and who is just talking to talk. Add how long you have been lifting,list supplements(if you are taking any) and you protein intake daily.

Here is mine,lifting overall for a year(had no clue what I was doing first 6 months),no supplements and I weight 150 and take in 200-225 grams of protein a day,no lifting within 24 hours of this picture;
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l13/blinkwatt/CopyofPICT0320.jpg
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you weigh 150 in that picture? how tall are you?
 

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I'll try to post a pic when i've got the time.. I'm guessing he's about 5 ft 10
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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looking good, I'd reccomend a bulk (albeit a super clean one) ;)
 

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howardalex said:
looking good, I'd reccomend a bulk (albeit a super clean one) ;)
Bulking?! There is no such thing in my "diet"! Just eat lean with large amounts of protein and you will gain pure muscle in no time.

My list of foods I eat;
-EGGS(1 WHOLE EGG,4 EGG WHITES)
-STRAWBERRY SPECIAL K CEREAL
-SKINLESS CHICKEN BREAST
-TUNA/TUNA SALAD
-HAMBURGERS MADE WITH THE LEANEST BEEF AVAILABLE MADE VIA GEORGE FOREMAN
-CHEESE/HAM/TURKEY/CHICKEN SANDWHICH(NO MAYO)
-LOAF OF BREAD/DELI LOAF(DO NOT EAT IN THE AFTERNOON OR FOR DINNER,THOSE CARBS WILL TURN INTO FAT DURING YOUR SLEEP)

Things I drink;
-FAT FREE MILK
-WATER

It's not hard,bodybuilding is how you eat more then anything.
 

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Come on,I can't be the only person on this board who has taken progress pics as they have gotten bigger.
 

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i wish i had taken a before pick, ive put on 15 pounds since october
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I've taken progress pics, but I've only been lifting (and inconsistently) for 3 months or so, with a horrendous diet...

:(

I'm still skinny and not quite so muscular.
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
I've taken progress pics, but I've only been lifting (and inconsistently) for 3 months or so, with a horrendous diet
Your consistency in the gym(not how hard you lift) and diet are more important then lifting hard or sleeping for 8+ hours a day,try to work on that and trust me,you will see gains.
 

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Yeh. It's easier said than done though. I constantly stress the importance of diet and rest to my friends, yet, I find myself constantly breaking my own advice.
 

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Yeh. It's easier said than done though. I constantly stress the importance of diet and rest to my friends, yet, I find myself constantly breaking my own advice.
Hey Skilla, I've been noticing your posts around, and for your age (and weight), you're pretty clued up on training, and you're strong. But as you've said here and a few times before, your diet is crap. Man, what's holding you back on the eating? Money, time, the effort?

-shaun
 

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blinkwatt said:
Your consistency in the gym(not how hard you lift) and diet are more important then lifting hard or sleeping for 8+ hours a day,try to work on that and trust me,you will see gains.
I don't mean to bust on you but when you're 150 lbs wet would you mind not talking like you're some authority?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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http://i138.photobucket.com/albums/q251/kr1sg/foto064.jpg

That's me, 20 yrs old, about 5.9, 150 lbs. No workout in the past week, muscles a bit flexed. Not eating particulary healthy..
Just taking an occasional protein shake after a workout..

I don't want to get like HUGE and buffed so i'm just trying to get a better v-shape and more muscle definition..
 

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mrRuckus said:
I don't mean to bust on you but when you're 150 lbs wet would you mind not talking like you're some authority?
Funny how you make that comment yet I still lift more then you by looking at your workout journal,and I do more reps in my sets. The only workout it looks like you do more then me in is squatting,but let me ask you this,does your butt come within a foot of touching the ground when you squat? I can do sets of above 275lbs. when I don't do full extension squats but only 155lbs when I do them the proper way. By the way muscle weights more then fat,which is why I weight 150 at my height. Have a nice day!
 

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guys lets not get on each others case, the reasons we lift are all different, no need to make this a competition, if you wanna do that start a "who can lift more than me thread".

good results guys, keep it going.
 

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Zaraza said:
guys lets not get on each others case, the reasons we lift are all different, no need to make this a competition,
Yes how very true you are. I posted this thread because there are way too many people here claiming that they are "huge/hubbed up/beef'd",I just want to know who is where.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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