"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Let's Resurrect this B1tch

Superman X

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This forum has gone downhill lately. We need to restore the "Golden Age of Grotesque" which inspried the New Age High School Bible.

I'm suspecting the reason why it's mostly newbies posting here now is that most of the real, experienced DJs who are gettings girls in real life believe that this forum has minimal impact on their success. This is true to an extent, all the information and inspiration in the world will not help someone who does not put in the effort.

But for people who are willing to put in the effort, the forum can help. And not only that, writing out a post clarifies your thoughts in your own mind, and brings you confidence.

And not just the 'legends', but the guys who are DJs in real life but rarely post: Let's start to believe again.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Vigilante7

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Ima a RAFC....and still new to this, but I SEE WHY ALL THE DJ's have left, some of the threads are s fuking stupid !! (I posted 1 dumb thread but that was because i approahced several girls and i still couldnt tell if they were interested) either way

Im stuck here cause of exams, but in 1 week theyre done !!!

Now get off ur azzes and go out!
 

Brazilian_Blues_Boy

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I have been in hibernation... in fact, I'm only scheduled to come out of my bear sleep by next month :D

But... I have some aces up my slave... always gotta have 'em.

So, if ressurection it's what you want, it's ressurection that you shall have.

Look forward to the Blues Boy

BBB
 

oakraiderz2

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Ill pull some stuff out my little magical box too. Too bad no one ever pays me any attention...
 

The Antichrist_Star

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Originally posted by Brazilian_Blues_Boy
I have been in hibernation... in fact, I'm only scheduled to come out of my bear sleep by next month :D

But... I have some aces up my slave... always gotta have 'em.

So, if ressurection it's what you want, it's ressurection that you shall have.

Look forward to the Blues Boy

BBB
Hehe... aces huh? And did I hear the word "Resurrection"? Hmm... I shall return.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Eternal

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*Dusts off book of "How to Post New Threads on SoSuave"* Guess I could always put this to good use again...
 

Czar

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Where the hell is DEISEL and Cablelight... and Pook :(
 

Eternal

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Originally posted by Czar
Where the hell is DEISEL and Cablelight... and Pook :(
DIESEL - Unfortuantly, he left after a flame war between him and Demon (former resident pain in the ass.)

Cabelight - Stepped down from moderation and left the boards due to lack of time.

Pook - Pops up every so often.
 

Smooth as Anything

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I've got a lot of posts on my computer that I've written out, but haven't posted yet...

I find it is much better to post in retrospect, than to just post unproven theory.

I'm in a time of change a time of EVOLUTION. I suggest everyone else follow suit.
 
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