"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Let's Resurrect this B1tch

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This forum has gone downhill lately. We need to restore the "Golden Age of Grotesque" which inspried the New Age High School Bible.

I'm suspecting the reason why it's mostly newbies posting here now is that most of the real, experienced DJs who are gettings girls in real life believe that this forum has minimal impact on their success. This is true to an extent, all the information and inspiration in the world will not help someone who does not put in the effort.

But for people who are willing to put in the effort, the forum can help. And not only that, writing out a post clarifies your thoughts in your own mind, and brings you confidence.

And not just the 'legends', but the guys who are DJs in real life but rarely post: Let's start to believe again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ima a RAFC....and still new to this, but I SEE WHY ALL THE DJ's have left, some of the threads are s fuking stupid !! (I posted 1 dumb thread but that was because i approahced several girls and i still couldnt tell if they were interested) either way

Im stuck here cause of exams, but in 1 week theyre done !!!

Now get off ur azzes and go out!
 
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I have been in hibernation... in fact, I'm only scheduled to come out of my bear sleep by next month :D

But... I have some aces up my slave... always gotta have 'em.

So, if ressurection it's what you want, it's ressurection that you shall have.

Look forward to the Blues Boy

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Ill pull some stuff out my little magical box too. Too bad no one ever pays me any attention...
 
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Originally posted by Brazilian_Blues_Boy
I have been in hibernation... in fact, I'm only scheduled to come out of my bear sleep by next month :D

But... I have some aces up my slave... always gotta have 'em.

So, if ressurection it's what you want, it's ressurection that you shall have.

Look forward to the Blues Boy

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Hehe... aces huh? And did I hear the word "Resurrection"? Hmm... I shall return.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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*Dusts off book of "How to Post New Threads on SoSuave"* Guess I could always put this to good use again...
 
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Where the hell is DEISEL and Cablelight... and Pook :(
 
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Originally posted by Czar
Where the hell is DEISEL and Cablelight... and Pook :(
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DIESEL - Unfortuantly, he left after a flame war between him and Demon (former resident pain in the ass.)

Cabelight - Stepped down from moderation and left the boards due to lack of time.

Pook - Pops up every so often.
 
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I've got a lot of posts on my computer that I've written out, but haven't posted yet...

I find it is much better to post in retrospect, than to just post unproven theory.

I'm in a time of change a time of EVOLUTION. I suggest everyone else follow suit.
 
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