"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Let's just cuddle!

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So I was chillin with my girl at my house. We watched a movie and I was making all the right moves (kino, etc.) So when the movie is over, I say "Hey wanna go up to my room?" She then gets a twinkle in her eyes and says "Sure". I then proceed to kiss her all over her body and slip off all her clothes. Just as I was about to begin, know what the damn tease says?!?! "Let's just cuddle!" I was like, b!tch, wtf did you just say?! I told her to get the hell out of my house and that we were through. What happened here?!

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Reloaded said:
So I was chillin with my girl at my house. We watched a movie and I was making all the right moves (kino, etc.) So when the movie is over, I say "Hey wanna go up to my room?" She then gets a twinkle in her eyes and says "Sure". I then proceed to kiss her all over her body and slip off all her clothes. Just as I was about to begin, know what the damn tease says?!?! "Let's just cuddle!" I was like, b!tch, wtf did you just say?! I told her to get the hell out of my house and that we were through. What happened here?!

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Simple shes a virgin and isnt ready to have sex!Its called taking it easy
 
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Reloaded said:
So I was chillin with my girl at my house. We watched a movie and I was making all the right moves (kino, etc.) So when the movie is over, I say "Hey wanna go up to my room?" She then gets a twinkle in her eyes and says "Sure". I then proceed to kiss her all over her body and slip off all her clothes. Just as I was about to begin, know what the damn tease says?!?! "Let's just cuddle!" I was like, b!tch, wtf did you just say?! I told her to get the hell out of my house and that we were through. What happened here?!

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Wow that was silly and childish. :down: You need to up your 'game' playa, because a real man doesn't flip his lid like that.

You just drew the go back to jail card.
 
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You should relax; a lot of women at times would rather cuddle than have sex. Sex is tiring and it takes a lot of energy if she doesn’t feel up to it she just wants to lie down in bed with you it shouldn't be a big deal. You basically screwed yourself up with that outburst because now you won’t be having sex with her at all….
 
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LOL at Reloaded and the KBJs who replied.

Hey Reloaded. You find it fun making up this bullsh!t?
Nice try. :crackup: :down:

By the way if (and I doubt this ever does happen to you) but if it does.. anybody who has done this before knows to make a move during the fvcking movie.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Does anybody else realize he made this story up? Reloaded is one funny kid.
 
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you should have smacked her... that would have been like so ALPHA
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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you should have smacked her... that would have been like so ALPHA
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Dammit, I swear she was lucky that I could control my anger to that extent, cuz I was so tempted.

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"Let's just cuddle!" I was like, b!tch, wtf did you just say?! I told her to get the hell out of my house and that we were through.
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DAMN BOY...hahahahahahaha. Right when she was naked too. LOL!
 
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Dammit, I swear she was lucky that I could control my anger to that extent, cuz I was so tempted.

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I was joking.:down: damn this play is wild.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So I was chillin with my girl at my house. We watched a movie and I was making all the right moves (kino, etc.) So when the movie is over, I say "Hey wanna go up to my room?" She then gets a twinkle in her eyes and says "Sure". I then proceed to kiss her all over her body and slip off all her clothes. Just as I was about to begin, know what the damn tease says?!?! "Let's just cuddle!" I was like, b!tch, wtf did you just say?! I told her to get the hell out of my house and that we were through. What happened here?!
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You reacted like a budding rapist. She may never be comfortable alone with you again. Secondly, women do not like to take responsibility for sexual interactions. They want to think to themselves that it 'just happened'. When you invited her up to your room, she knew it was about sex. You might have well have said "HEY MAMA LETS GET BUSY."

Dammit, I swear she was lucky that I could control my anger to that extent, cuz I was so tempted.
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My God, you are a rapist. Take some time out. In San Quentin.
 
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You do realise cuddling usually leads to sex if you do it right...
 
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You do realise cuddling usually leads to sex if you do it right...
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That is not in the DJ bible:moon:
 
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Diplomatic you beat me to it!!!! I hate when that happens. Cuddling with the right women sometimes is not a bad idea. You jumped through your arse too quickly. I would have stayed right where I was and tried the smooth shyt there. You gave up a piece being over anxious.
 
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Reloaded said:
So I was chillin with my girl at my house. We watched a movie and I was making all the right moves (kino, etc.) So when the movie is over, I say "Hey wanna go up to my room?" She then gets a twinkle in her eyes and says "Sure". I then proceed to kiss her all over her body and slip off all her clothes. Just as I was about to begin, know what the damn tease says?!?! "Let's just cuddle!" I was like, b!tch, wtf did you just say?! I told her to get the hell out of my house and that we were through. What happened here?!

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Guys.....this guy sounds like a troll to me. But heh. Nice one in showing her you are not just with her for sex......Good going.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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