"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Lets get to know each other before we date"

devilkingx2

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"you want to have sex before we date? ooh, quite the innovator aren't you?"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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One of my standard routines was a used to send them a link to a virtual pet. And then say hey if we going to have an online wedding we should at least get a dog. Of course there are online chapels of love. Groan.

Anyway basically make it more and more ridiculous and then say or we could just meet up and have a drink coffee whatever.

Now before the righteous pedestalising overinvestment crowd startup. Yep I invested. Everytime I made up or stole a short routine I shoved it in Excel. I was the copy paste King. Self amusement guys if you're not having fun why are you doing it
 
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