devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
"you want to have sex before we date? ooh, quite the innovator aren't you?"
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"Lets get to know each other before we date"
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
One of my standard routines was a used to send them a link to a virtual pet. And then say hey if we going to have an online wedding we should at least get a dog. Of course there are online chapels of love. Groan.
Anyway basically make it more and more ridiculous and then say or we could just meet up and have a drink coffee whatever.
Now before the righteous pedestalising overinvestment crowd startup. Yep I invested. Everytime I made up or stole a short routine I shoved it in Excel. I was the copy paste King. Self amusement guys if you're not having fun why are you doing it
Anyway basically make it more and more ridiculous and then say or we could just meet up and have a drink coffee whatever.
Now before the righteous pedestalising overinvestment crowd startup. Yep I invested. Everytime I made up or stole a short routine I shoved it in Excel. I was the copy paste King. Self amusement guys if you're not having fun why are you doing it
JohnChops
Master Don Juan
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If you have abundance who cares, a girl who wants to go out with you, will.
If you have abundance who cares, a girl who wants to go out with you, will.