"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Let's get superficial (shallow), what can't you stand about a woman?
- Thread starter Francisco d'Anconia
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
So... What kind of women would you like to hit you in the face?
...somebody had to ask....
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It could be always pulled back.Francisco d'Anconia
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Let's just get back to the topic of the thread... Ain't nothing more depressing than a bunch of hardlegs expounding the value of foreskin....
Bonhomme
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Superficial stuff, in no particular order:
* Hard, rough smoker's skin (smoking causes free radical damage to cells, which no beauty creams can overcome)
* Bad hygeine
* Beer belly, especially when the gal wears clothing that bares her midriff (I can more easily be attracted to a larger, well-proportioned gal who dresses best for her features)
* Very short hair or any mannish hairstyle, such as a crew cut (by contrast, I find a feminine, short "bob" hairdo very sexy on the right gal: think mod)
* Too many tattoos and/or piercings
Non-superficial stuff:
* Not affectionate
* Not affectionate
* Not affectionate
* Overly critical
* Too negative
* Gold-digger
* Closed-minded
* Expects people to be perfect
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
thejuice
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Desdinova
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- Women with their eyebrows drawn / tattooed on
- Women with makeup tattooed on
- Religious women
- Controlling women
- Stalkers
- Women who wear shirts to show off their spare tire
- Granny panties
- Women who cover up their nakedness in the bedroom because they think they're fat
- Short hair
- Annoying laugh
- Large moles on their face (small ones are okay)
- Fake fingernails
- Women who carry constantly ringing cell phones
- Women who talk about pointless things and keep repeating themselves
- Pot smokers
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What if it's on her wrist? I was at Borders (Bookstore) last Sunday and I saw a girl, who was about a 7, that had a very large mole (about 3 inches in diameter I'd say) on her wrist. That wasn't the worst part either she had tons of black hairs all over that mole as well. The rest of her arm, wrist, and hand seemed perfectly hairless. It was like a rainforest in the middle of the desert. And the whole time she's ringing up the items I bought I'm staring at the mole wondering "why dosen't she shave those hairs on her mole?" or "why dosen't she have the mole removed?"
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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I know a chick like that. She's pretty hot, at least an 8, and she's got this big patch of hair on her hand. It's hairy like a mini pu55y and it's fvcking freaky! First time I saw that I had to check and see if there was a full moon out.
When you raise your heel the muscles in the calve flex, that's why there is more definition.
I like women who live a healthy lifestyle and have a healthy personality. Curled blond hair intense emerald or sapphire eyes, and a slim body type. Combine this with her being say 5'4".
Too bad not too many off those are walking around in sweden, most are just overweight and have no passion for life at all.
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Haha! That cracked me up.
Anyway, for me, if she's British, there's a 95 percent chance she's gonna turn me off.
Fcuking hell, the female population of this country sucks.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Haha, sounds like the Nordic "Snow Cows" here in Minnesota! Yah, you bet'cha!
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
One BIG one:
Too much perfume or any of the wrong kind of perfume.(cough, choke, gag!)
California Love
Master Don Juan
lol!Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Haha, sounds like the Nordic "Snow Cows" here in Minnesota! Yah, you bet'cha!
btw, does anyone know if the girls in vienna, budapest, and praque are any good? I'm heading to europe in a few weeks.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I've been to Barcelona, Pamplona, Nice, Florence and Ibiza and drooled over women in each city. Prague is on my list in the near future.
Abbott
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Right, end of disclaimer.
Things I don't like:
1) Racial minorities. I only like white women.
2) Wiggers/"Oreos"
3) Women who interpret the fact that I'm slightly old-fashioned as being a bad thing.
4) Complaining about people smoking in their presence, whether it's tobacco or marijuana.
5) Strong supporters of the "drug war." I don't do any controlled substances (marijuana, cocaine, meth, etc.), but I do think that the best way to fix the related problems is to stop fighting the "drug war."
6) Very religious women, or any non-Atheist woman who seriously doesn't like the fact that I'm not her religion (I'm Atheist).
7) Women who feel the need to convert me to their religion.
8) Jehovah's witnesses/ mormons.
9) Extreme Republican women (I'm a passionate liberal).
10) Free-market fundumentalists (believers in total 100% laissez-faire capitalism)
11) Women who can't accept my pro-gun views.
12) Femanazis.
13) Women who think that I'm oppressing them if I act like a gentleman.
14) Totally pasty-white skin...I prefer a slight tan to it.
15) Very small breasts, or almost completely flat-chested.
16) Very short women (under 5'3").
17) Women who dye their hair a color that doesn't naturally occur in nature. Black, brown, and blonde are OK. Silver, Pink, Purple, and etc. are NOT.
18) Not using make-up. I do NOT want to see you au naturel.
19) Acne.
20) Women who dress like men.
21) Women who don't drink ever.
22) Women who don't party.
23) Women with nasty fingernails.
24) Body hair (whether it's pubic hair, arm pit hair, leg hair, whatever...I don't like it).
25) Uni-brows. I've never seen one but from what I've heard, it's freaky.
26) Female moustaches and beards.
27) Domineering women. I'm the man, so I'm supposed to be dominant. Plus I hate authority.
28) A nasty bathroom at her place.
29) Women who don't own any kind of motorized transportation (motorcar, motorcycle, etc.).
30) Lesbian women, because they don't like men, and I'm a man. Bisexual women are OK though.
31) Broke-ass women who have almost no money at all, so you hear them complain about a cent here, a cent there (e.g. "OMG...gas went up by $.05/gal.!," or "Soda now costs $.50 more a case, oh no!"). Women like this are no fun because they never have any money to spend on fun stuff.
32) Women who's bedrooms are exceptionally sloppy.
33) Women who don't wear any jewelry at all.
34) Women who play lots of games and bullsh!t, as opposed to just being more straight forward. Once I really couldn't tell, so I gave up.
35) Women who have piercings in places other than the ear lobe, for earrings.
36) Totally "Alternative/Gothic/Punk" women (it's OK to like some of the bands and such, but NO piercings, wearing all black, being perpetually depressed, etc.)
37) Psychotic women.
38) Overly dramatic women, especially those who create drama to keep from being bored with their lives. My life is drama-free, and I wish to keep it that way.
39) White Women (since it's all I like) who are so into rap that they play it all the time and can't compromise at ALL. I belong to the camp that wishes it was never invented, so...
40) Women who don't have a(ny) mobile phone(s).
41) And so on....I could go on and on.
Things I'd like, but aren't necessary:
1) Better than average motorcar.
2) Rich
3) Nice apartment/house.
4) Lives alone, because it demonstrates a level a responsibility that isn't necessary (and thus is less obvious) when living with roommates.
5) Gives me lots of expensive stuff.
Then it means she's rich and wants to please me by getting me stuff.6) Always picks up the tab, so then it costs me nothing.
7) Women who do my house chores for me, so I don't have to do them.
That's my list. Wow that's a mouthful!
Ben
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.