Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"Let's get coffee on Thursday." "Is this a friendly coffee?"

goundra

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wtf do guys expect quality women to put out all the time? every sexual contact is a risk of disease and all vag penetration risks pregancy. if she puts out without getting to know you REALLY well, then she's doing it for a lot of other guys, too, in other words, she's a slut. if you want a slut, then it shouldn't be an issue, they are at every bar.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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backbreaker said:
if you next a girl because she says this is this the epitome of not having game. this is what game is lol.
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My wife shot me down the first time i asked her for number. Then she shot me down again on our first date letting it be known "nothing was going to happen". by the end of the first date she was eating out of my hand.
Your statements pretty much prove the point that guys shouldn't pursue women who aren't interested in them. Unless they want to get married.

Any time you have to "win" a woman over, she's calling the shots. And the end result is the chick gets you so interested that you marry her. You got played by your wife, not the other way around.

I have no desire to be married, so I avoid any woman who expects me to "woo" her or isn't at least somewhat interested from the beginning.

Following your strategy is a great way to acquire a ball-and-chain. As you yourself have.
 

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Zarky said:
Your statements pretty much prove the point that guys shouldn't pursue women who aren't interested in them. Unless they want to get married.

Any time you have to "win" a woman over, she's calling the shots. And the end result is the chick gets you so interested that you marry her. You got played by your wife, not the other way around.

I have no desire to be married, so I avoid any woman who expects me to "woo" her or isn't at least somewhat interested from the beginning.

Following your strategy is a great way to acquire a ball-and-chain. As you yourself have.
Did you read this somewhere?


Her: Is this a friendly coffee?
You: I haven't decided yet.
And Danger, this is genius. Looking forward to using it.
 
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