"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lets discuss girls, dating, techniques, tricks! (for DISCUSSION ONLY)

skip2mylou781

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ok seriously, heres a good discussion thread:

The following is a list of techniques from sosuave that i never thought about (even tho i used unknowingly) that i think are just GOLDMINES:

1)gunwitch
2)emotional push/pull
3)freeze out (like when girls says no to sex)
4)QUALIFYING

share experiences on ur successes using these - REAL LIFE experiences so everyone can learn from everyone else!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WHOA...u SPOKE to him????


please tell me how cuz this guy's technique is THE best peice of advice i read on here:

sexual state, sexual bedroom eyes eye contact, isolation, and 1 of my favorite things - "u gotta just talk to the girl and have a "lets get to kno each other a lil bit before we ****"" quote

his shyt is DA ****
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I use to stumble upon alot of ****, I'd do C+F, the strong eye contact, kino, etc, but then I'd get nervous at times.

Then I went around learned alot of great body language, C+F, but what really is powerful for me, is Brazilian Blues Boy's post. Like every one of them I just learn something new, and his posting style was the ****ing truth. He changed my outlook on life alot, I think BBB should be a must read for almost all newcomers.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=33611
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=33710
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=33279
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=31744
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=14792
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=24770
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=18987
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=29582
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=14536

Just a few great ones, I feel.

Good thread skip, in light of erm...recent events :p.

keep tokin :)
 
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