"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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skip2mylou781

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ok seriously, heres a good discussion thread:

The following is a list of techniques from sosuave that i never thought about (even tho i used unknowingly) that i think are just GOLDMINES:

1)gunwitch
2)emotional push/pull
3)freeze out (like when girls says no to sex)
4)QUALIFYING

share experiences on ur successes using these - REAL LIFE experiences so everyone can learn from everyone else!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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skip2mylou781

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WHOA...u SPOKE to him????


please tell me how cuz this guy's technique is THE best peice of advice i read on here:

sexual state, sexual bedroom eyes eye contact, isolation, and 1 of my favorite things - "u gotta just talk to the girl and have a "lets get to kno each other a lil bit before we ****"" quote

his shyt is DA ****
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I use to stumble upon alot of ****, I'd do C+F, the strong eye contact, kino, etc, but then I'd get nervous at times.

Then I went around learned alot of great body language, C+F, but what really is powerful for me, is Brazilian Blues Boy's post. Like every one of them I just learn something new, and his posting style was the ****ing truth. He changed my outlook on life alot, I think BBB should be a must read for almost all newcomers.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=33611
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=33710
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=33279
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=31744
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=14792
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=24770
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=18987
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=29582
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=14536

Just a few great ones, I feel.

Good thread skip, in light of erm...recent events :p.

keep tokin :)
 
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