"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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skip2mylou781

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ok seriously, heres a good discussion thread:

The following is a list of techniques from sosuave that i never thought about (even tho i used unknowingly) that i think are just GOLDMINES:

1)gunwitch
2)emotional push/pull
3)freeze out (like when girls says no to sex)
4)QUALIFYING

share experiences on ur successes using these - REAL LIFE experiences so everyone can learn from everyone else!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WHOA...u SPOKE to him????


please tell me how cuz this guy's technique is THE best peice of advice i read on here:

sexual state, sexual bedroom eyes eye contact, isolation, and 1 of my favorite things - "u gotta just talk to the girl and have a "lets get to kno each other a lil bit before we ****"" quote

his shyt is DA ****
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I use to stumble upon alot of ****, I'd do C+F, the strong eye contact, kino, etc, but then I'd get nervous at times.

Then I went around learned alot of great body language, C+F, but what really is powerful for me, is Brazilian Blues Boy's post. Like every one of them I just learn something new, and his posting style was the ****ing truth. He changed my outlook on life alot, I think BBB should be a must read for almost all newcomers.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=33611
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=33710
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=33279
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=31744
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=14792
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=24770
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=18987
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=29582
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=14536

Just a few great ones, I feel.

Good thread skip, in light of erm...recent events :p.

keep tokin :)
 
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