"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Let's break down talking to random strangers at the most basic, easy level

bigdave17

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The easiest way to start a conversation with anybody is

1)make a remark on anything situational. If you see somebody at a grocery store and you like a certain brand of yogurt, you can say something like "you ever try that yogurt? it's really excellent blah blah"

2)After a bit of situational conversation, introduce yourself and ask them personal questions starting with as casual as possible (escalating how personal the questions are the more you talk to them)

3)Get to know as much about the other person as possible

4)If you have a lot in common/have great chemistry, ask for a number

This goes for both talking to women and making friends. The success level is going to be based on 3 things

1)how good you look/how good of a package you are

2)how receptive the other person is

3)How good your attitude is. If you are friendly, confident, carefree and just a genuinely great person, people naturally gravitate towards you

I feel like we all make a big deal out of this but the vast majority of people are pretty friendly...especially if you look good and have an excellent presentation. The goal is to be able to generate great chemistry with almost anybody you meet.

Agree/disagree?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thanks but the only problem is that even then is hard to get her to your hoeme and it will only happen if she likes you enough.
 

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the only way you can ever succeed in dating is if a woman likes you enough lol
Your most profound thought . Women are duplicatous, so once one affirms you others will as well . If no one currently does, no one will want to be the first . Get one and others follow.
 

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Tried asking lifeguard at the water park what sunscreen she uses. She acted like she couldn't hear me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tried asking lifeguard at the water park what sunscreen she uses. She acted like she couldn't hear me.

remember I said a part of it is how responsive the other party is?


Although I'm ****ing beautiful so I rarely get blown off by anybody ;)
 
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