“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Let's break down talking to random strangers at the most basic, easy level

bigdave17

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The easiest way to start a conversation with anybody is

1)make a remark on anything situational. If you see somebody at a grocery store and you like a certain brand of yogurt, you can say something like "you ever try that yogurt? it's really excellent blah blah"

2)After a bit of situational conversation, introduce yourself and ask them personal questions starting with as casual as possible (escalating how personal the questions are the more you talk to them)

3)Get to know as much about the other person as possible

4)If you have a lot in common/have great chemistry, ask for a number

This goes for both talking to women and making friends. The success level is going to be based on 3 things

1)how good you look/how good of a package you are

2)how receptive the other person is

3)How good your attitude is. If you are friendly, confident, carefree and just a genuinely great person, people naturally gravitate towards you

I feel like we all make a big deal out of this but the vast majority of people are pretty friendly...especially if you look good and have an excellent presentation. The goal is to be able to generate great chemistry with almost anybody you meet.

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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Thanks but the only problem is that even then is hard to get her to your hoeme and it will only happen if she likes you enough.
 

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the only way you can ever succeed in dating is if a woman likes you enough lol
Your most profound thought . Women are duplicatous, so once one affirms you others will as well . If no one currently does, no one will want to be the first . Get one and others follow.
 

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Tried asking lifeguard at the water park what sunscreen she uses. She acted like she couldn't hear me.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Tried asking lifeguard at the water park what sunscreen she uses. She acted like she couldn't hear me.

remember I said a part of it is how responsive the other party is?


Although I'm ****ing beautiful so I rarely get blown off by anybody ;)
 
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