"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Let's break down talking to random strangers at the most basic, easy level

bigdave17

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The easiest way to start a conversation with anybody is

1)make a remark on anything situational. If you see somebody at a grocery store and you like a certain brand of yogurt, you can say something like "you ever try that yogurt? it's really excellent blah blah"

2)After a bit of situational conversation, introduce yourself and ask them personal questions starting with as casual as possible (escalating how personal the questions are the more you talk to them)

3)Get to know as much about the other person as possible

4)If you have a lot in common/have great chemistry, ask for a number

This goes for both talking to women and making friends. The success level is going to be based on 3 things

1)how good you look/how good of a package you are

2)how receptive the other person is

3)How good your attitude is. If you are friendly, confident, carefree and just a genuinely great person, people naturally gravitate towards you

I feel like we all make a big deal out of this but the vast majority of people are pretty friendly...especially if you look good and have an excellent presentation. The goal is to be able to generate great chemistry with almost anybody you meet.

Agree/disagree?
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thanks but the only problem is that even then is hard to get her to your hoeme and it will only happen if she likes you enough.
 

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the only way you can ever succeed in dating is if a woman likes you enough lol
Your most profound thought . Women are duplicatous, so once one affirms you others will as well . If no one currently does, no one will want to be the first . Get one and others follow.
 

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Tried asking lifeguard at the water park what sunscreen she uses. She acted like she couldn't hear me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tried asking lifeguard at the water park what sunscreen she uses. She acted like she couldn't hear me.

remember I said a part of it is how responsive the other party is?


Although I'm ****ing beautiful so I rarely get blown off by anybody ;)
 
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