"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Let's brainstorm some ice breakers for situations

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The cold approach can be tricky sometimes when you don't know exactly how to break the ice. I'm interested in hearing some of other's default ice breakers, if you have any. And if you're one of those guys who don't know what he's going to say until he walks up, that's cool too.

Just curious to see what kinda stuff you guys do, as I feel this part of my game could use some tightening. Currently, I can approach in some situations, but in others, it seems really awkward, like when she is sitting or walking far away in a mall or library, and she has nothing interesting on her I can easily comment about.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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R3bel without cause said:
The cold approach can be tricky sometimes when you don't know exactly how to break the ice. I'm interested in hearing some of other's default ice breakers, if you have any. And if you're one of those guys who don't know what he's going to say until he walks up, that's cool too.

Just curious to see what kinda stuff you guys do, as I feel this part of my game could use some tightening. Currently, I can approach in some situations, but in others, it seems really awkward, like when she is sitting or walking far away in a mall or library, and she has nothing interesting on her I can easily comment about.
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... nothing ... interesting ... on ... her ... you ... can ... easily ... comment ... about ...


INTERESTING


How about this: TRY GETTING MORE INTERESTED :yes:
 
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1) Walk up to a girl lift up your shirt show her your nippels and say "You've seen mine now show me yours".

2) Say "Hi", "Hello" or "Hey"

3) Situational openers are the best just say you see a woman in a supermarket buying coffee you approach and say "I just bought a coffee machine yesterday help me pick out the best coffee beans". You know apply it to the situation.

4) Approach a group of girls and say "Hey Guys" you should say "Guys" instead of girls or ladies. It makes it sound less sleazy.

5) You’re in a club and you see a hot girl reject some guy, you approach and chuckle then say "seriously how did he do?".

6) Supermarket "Hi do you know where I could find some (insert obscure hard to find item)"

7) Run up to her and say out loud “wassssssssssssssssssssssuppppppppp” scary movie style.

8) Direct openers are great to but not for beginners.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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