"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Let's brainstorm some ice breakers for situations

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R3bel without cause

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The cold approach can be tricky sometimes when you don't know exactly how to break the ice. I'm interested in hearing some of other's default ice breakers, if you have any. And if you're one of those guys who don't know what he's going to say until he walks up, that's cool too.

Just curious to see what kinda stuff you guys do, as I feel this part of my game could use some tightening. Currently, I can approach in some situations, but in others, it seems really awkward, like when she is sitting or walking far away in a mall or library, and she has nothing interesting on her I can easily comment about.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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R3bel without cause said:
The cold approach can be tricky sometimes when you don't know exactly how to break the ice. I'm interested in hearing some of other's default ice breakers, if you have any. And if you're one of those guys who don't know what he's going to say until he walks up, that's cool too.

Just curious to see what kinda stuff you guys do, as I feel this part of my game could use some tightening. Currently, I can approach in some situations, but in others, it seems really awkward, like when she is sitting or walking far away in a mall or library, and she has nothing interesting on her I can easily comment about.
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... nothing ... interesting ... on ... her ... you ... can ... easily ... comment ... about ...


INTERESTING


How about this: TRY GETTING MORE INTERESTED :yes:
 
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1) Walk up to a girl lift up your shirt show her your nippels and say "You've seen mine now show me yours".

2) Say "Hi", "Hello" or "Hey"

3) Situational openers are the best just say you see a woman in a supermarket buying coffee you approach and say "I just bought a coffee machine yesterday help me pick out the best coffee beans". You know apply it to the situation.

4) Approach a group of girls and say "Hey Guys" you should say "Guys" instead of girls or ladies. It makes it sound less sleazy.

5) You’re in a club and you see a hot girl reject some guy, you approach and chuckle then say "seriously how did he do?".

6) Supermarket "Hi do you know where I could find some (insert obscure hard to find item)"

7) Run up to her and say out loud “wassssssssssssssssssssssuppppppppp” scary movie style.

8) Direct openers are great to but not for beginners.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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