"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Let's brainstorm some ice breakers for situations

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The cold approach can be tricky sometimes when you don't know exactly how to break the ice. I'm interested in hearing some of other's default ice breakers, if you have any. And if you're one of those guys who don't know what he's going to say until he walks up, that's cool too.

Just curious to see what kinda stuff you guys do, as I feel this part of my game could use some tightening. Currently, I can approach in some situations, but in others, it seems really awkward, like when she is sitting or walking far away in a mall or library, and she has nothing interesting on her I can easily comment about.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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R3bel without cause said:
The cold approach can be tricky sometimes when you don't know exactly how to break the ice. I'm interested in hearing some of other's default ice breakers, if you have any. And if you're one of those guys who don't know what he's going to say until he walks up, that's cool too.

Just curious to see what kinda stuff you guys do, as I feel this part of my game could use some tightening. Currently, I can approach in some situations, but in others, it seems really awkward, like when she is sitting or walking far away in a mall or library, and she has nothing interesting on her I can easily comment about.


... nothing ... interesting ... on ... her ... you ... can ... easily ... comment ... about ...


INTERESTING


How about this: TRY GETTING MORE INTERESTED :yes:
 

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1) Walk up to a girl lift up your shirt show her your nippels and say "You've seen mine now show me yours".

2) Say "Hi", "Hello" or "Hey"

3) Situational openers are the best just say you see a woman in a supermarket buying coffee you approach and say "I just bought a coffee machine yesterday help me pick out the best coffee beans". You know apply it to the situation.

4) Approach a group of girls and say "Hey Guys" you should say "Guys" instead of girls or ladies. It makes it sound less sleazy.

5) You’re in a club and you see a hot girl reject some guy, you approach and chuckle then say "seriously how did he do?".

6) Supermarket "Hi do you know where I could find some (insert obscure hard to find item)"

7) Run up to her and say out loud “wassssssssssssssssssssssuppppppppp” scary movie style.

8) Direct openers are great to but not for beginners.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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