"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Let the Games Begin!!!!!!!!

donjuan87

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I have gotten fed up with my lack of success with girls, then found this site, and now am on my way to becoming a Don Juan. I have started to work out, and improve myself in all areas.

Okay, so one of my best friend's parents are moving 2 hours away to Topeka because of new jobs, and my friend wants to finish out the rest of our senior year here, as he loves it at our school and is pretty popular here. So my parents offered to let him move into our spare bedroom.

He is not a player, but is popular with women, almost a natural don juan. He's a 'good kid' whom my parents trust. So this means I will be able to use this as an opportunity to put my DJ learning in high gear, and stop staying in all the time on friday and saturday nights and actually going out and praticing my DJ skills. Because my friend will usually be with me, my parents will let me go out more often(in the past they used to question me like I was a captured terrorist whenever I went out or came in at night).

So my question is:

How can I best take advantage of this newfound freedom, and put my transition to becoming a Don Juan in high gear?

I need some suggestions so I don't waste this golden opportunity.

He's moving in soon, reply ASAP!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well, if he's as good as you said he is, one thing you can do is...learn from and watch him.
 

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I know to watch and learn, but does anyone know any other good ideas / tips?
 

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From my past experience, asking someone straight up (especially naturals) as to how they get chicks is going to get you NO WHERE.

Naturals are just that, naturals. They don't scientifically know what they are doing (For any confusion, they do KNOW what they are doing when interacting with a girl, but it's not too that of a PUA's) , so they can't give you really in depth tips about their game. For example, they can say things like, "Be confident, arrogant, etc" or "Just don't care about the girls".

Just observe him to no end. How he talks, facial expression, body movements, energy, what he says, EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING as to how he interacts with girls.

One thing he can help you with is your image. Most naturals dress very well (most naturals are also really good looking, which makes sense, but don't think THAT is why they get girls), are well groomed, and understand fashion. This is something you can ask them about, you're look.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In reply to your post, Zod:

No offense to him, but he looks fine (not really male model material)

is really energetic

has a reaaallllly dry, kooky sense of humor (girls absolutely LOVE this, they eat it up with a spoon)

and has his own style

and has girls eating out of his hand (even multiple gfs at the same time)

But, he's human, and his game isn't perfect.
 
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