"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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donjuan87

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I have gotten fed up with my lack of success with girls, then found this site, and now am on my way to becoming a Don Juan. I have started to work out, and improve myself in all areas.

Okay, so one of my best friend's parents are moving 2 hours away to Topeka because of new jobs, and my friend wants to finish out the rest of our senior year here, as he loves it at our school and is pretty popular here. So my parents offered to let him move into our spare bedroom.

He is not a player, but is popular with women, almost a natural don juan. He's a 'good kid' whom my parents trust. So this means I will be able to use this as an opportunity to put my DJ learning in high gear, and stop staying in all the time on friday and saturday nights and actually going out and praticing my DJ skills. Because my friend will usually be with me, my parents will let me go out more often(in the past they used to question me like I was a captured terrorist whenever I went out or came in at night).

So my question is:

How can I best take advantage of this newfound freedom, and put my transition to becoming a Don Juan in high gear?

I need some suggestions so I don't waste this golden opportunity.

He's moving in soon, reply ASAP!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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satyriasis

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well, if he's as good as you said he is, one thing you can do is...learn from and watch him.
 

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I know to watch and learn, but does anyone know any other good ideas / tips?
 

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From my past experience, asking someone straight up (especially naturals) as to how they get chicks is going to get you NO WHERE.

Naturals are just that, naturals. They don't scientifically know what they are doing (For any confusion, they do KNOW what they are doing when interacting with a girl, but it's not too that of a PUA's) , so they can't give you really in depth tips about their game. For example, they can say things like, "Be confident, arrogant, etc" or "Just don't care about the girls".

Just observe him to no end. How he talks, facial expression, body movements, energy, what he says, EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING as to how he interacts with girls.

One thing he can help you with is your image. Most naturals dress very well (most naturals are also really good looking, which makes sense, but don't think THAT is why they get girls), are well groomed, and understand fashion. This is something you can ask them about, you're look.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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In reply to your post, Zod:

No offense to him, but he looks fine (not really male model material)

is really energetic

has a reaaallllly dry, kooky sense of humor (girls absolutely LOVE this, they eat it up with a spoon)

and has his own style

and has girls eating out of his hand (even multiple gfs at the same time)

But, he's human, and his game isn't perfect.
 
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