"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have gotten fed up with my lack of success with girls, then found this site, and now am on my way to becoming a Don Juan. I have started to work out, and improve myself in all areas.

Okay, so one of my best friend's parents are moving 2 hours away to Topeka because of new jobs, and my friend wants to finish out the rest of our senior year here, as he loves it at our school and is pretty popular here. So my parents offered to let him move into our spare bedroom.

He is not a player, but is popular with women, almost a natural don juan. He's a 'good kid' whom my parents trust. So this means I will be able to use this as an opportunity to put my DJ learning in high gear, and stop staying in all the time on friday and saturday nights and actually going out and praticing my DJ skills. Because my friend will usually be with me, my parents will let me go out more often(in the past they used to question me like I was a captured terrorist whenever I went out or came in at night).

So my question is:

How can I best take advantage of this newfound freedom, and put my transition to becoming a Don Juan in high gear?

I need some suggestions so I don't waste this golden opportunity.

He's moving in soon, reply ASAP!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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well, if he's as good as you said he is, one thing you can do is...learn from and watch him.
 
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I know to watch and learn, but does anyone know any other good ideas / tips?
 
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From my past experience, asking someone straight up (especially naturals) as to how they get chicks is going to get you NO WHERE.

Naturals are just that, naturals. They don't scientifically know what they are doing (For any confusion, they do KNOW what they are doing when interacting with a girl, but it's not too that of a PUA's) , so they can't give you really in depth tips about their game. For example, they can say things like, "Be confident, arrogant, etc" or "Just don't care about the girls".

Just observe him to no end. How he talks, facial expression, body movements, energy, what he says, EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING as to how he interacts with girls.

One thing he can help you with is your image. Most naturals dress very well (most naturals are also really good looking, which makes sense, but don't think THAT is why they get girls), are well groomed, and understand fashion. This is something you can ask them about, you're look.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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In reply to your post, Zod:

No offense to him, but he looks fine (not really male model material)

is really energetic

has a reaaallllly dry, kooky sense of humor (girls absolutely LOVE this, they eat it up with a spoon)

and has his own style

and has girls eating out of his hand (even multiple gfs at the same time)

But, he's human, and his game isn't perfect.
 
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