"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Let her down easy: Prom

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612_Da_Playa

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So this girl has been liking me asks me to prom. She does it in a way that I can't really say no. She says, "When we go to prom should be go to yours or mine" I'm standing there like :confused: So I kinda gave her the power. Well I got the power back and called her and was like "we need to talk". I told her I didn't plan on going and gave her a bs reason like "I didn't save up for prom." She was disappointed and gave a lil "you suck" response but nothing serious. She said she would call me tomorrow. The boy got game:cool: Do you guys think I didn't come off soft but not as an A-hole either?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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"I'll go if u pay for both of us, pay for the limo, pay for my entire suit, pay for a hotel room so I can **** other girls, AND give me some extra money on the side"
 
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I don't know what your reason was but you should have told her the truth i guess unless she is a drama queen or something that should be the best way.

You did handled it well and it was a great excuse so GJ!:D

PS: GJ=Good Job :p
 
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