"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Let her down easy: Prom

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So this girl has been liking me asks me to prom. She does it in a way that I can't really say no. She says, "When we go to prom should be go to yours or mine" I'm standing there like :confused: So I kinda gave her the power. Well I got the power back and called her and was like "we need to talk". I told her I didn't plan on going and gave her a bs reason like "I didn't save up for prom." She was disappointed and gave a lil "you suck" response but nothing serious. She said she would call me tomorrow. The boy got game:cool: Do you guys think I didn't come off soft but not as an A-hole either?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"I'll go if u pay for both of us, pay for the limo, pay for my entire suit, pay for a hotel room so I can **** other girls, AND give me some extra money on the side"
 
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I don't know what your reason was but you should have told her the truth i guess unless she is a drama queen or something that should be the best way.

You did handled it well and it was a great excuse so GJ!:D

PS: GJ=Good Job :p
 
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