Lessons from dating single mother ! Learn or perish

[All_Kindz_Of_Gainz]

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Talking about stereotypes

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

You would still date and get thrown to the cleaners by her though

Actually, I wouldn't, but I guess you think she's attractive enough.

 

[Bigpapa]

Men who interface with women who have high careers or children have to come to accept that there is a level of disposability in being a man, if you've interfaced with this concept before in your life it's not a big deal but the first time you really experience disposability as a man it can be very disturbing.

There was a time when I viewed women as objects and I'll tell you, nothing was more infuriating than when I was first viewed as disposable by an object, it was maddening, but over time I came to understand I'm not interfacing with an object and the disposability made a bit more sense and was less infuriating the 2nd time around.

Sounds like you found out you were disposable, it happens.

You know man, if you would pay attention to the successful guys you would actually realize that men are the end choosers not the women

Women will choose a guy in the sense that she will be receptive to him, but finally it is the guy who is choosing as he can accept the courtship process or decline it

As an idea of the woman is mentally ok and not a hoe, a quality guy (that is also at least a bit experienced + ok mentally ) is not as replaceable as you you put it

 

[CornbreadFed]

Actually, I wouldn't, but I guess you think she's attractive enough.

She's not my cup of tea, but I am confident that if this girl randomly expressed interest to any person on this site that they would capitalize on it for sure. AKA, she's good enough to stick your weenie in.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

She's not my cup of tea, but I am confident that if this girl randomly expressed interest to any person on this site that they would capitalize on it for sure. AKA, she's good enough to stick your weenie in.

Only if you become her baby's step daddy.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Only if you become her baby's step daddy.

I would refuse, wouldn't even try and get sex out of it. My scenario is basically if you only knew she was a single mom and she wanted sex.

 

[SW15]

my final Advise never waste your time with a single mum, may be just for a lay but Nothing much…

I agree with this. That maybe for casual, no-strings attached sex is a big maybe. It's somewhat difficult to even arrange that with her parenting schedule and lifestyle. It's usually easier to get casual, no-strings sex from a childless woman due to the fewer time constraints.

Lessons!

- they always have money issues
- sex is good at start but with time it goes Down
- ex is always in picture and she can choose him again over you any time
- they are not worth your time and they Will waste your time
- they love bomb you but with time they start complaining
- they are damaged emotionaly beyond repair

True. These lessons also are applicable to childless women as well. Even with childless women, sex is good at the start but will go down with time in a lot of cases.

All of the other issues can arise with childless women at times.

This is why the whole age pill is a huge cope and lie for men. Yes, single moms should be avoided by most men, but at some point, they will be the majority of available women in your dating market.

At what age do you think that happens for men? 35?

Right now, as a 40 year old man, you'd probably say that the majority of my available women would be single moms. In general, when I do approaches, I tend to approach childless women. Why? It's because I tend to go to places where childless women are when I do in-person approaches. If I used swipe apps, I would probably see more single moms. I rarely encounter single moms out in the wild when I do my approaches.

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She's not my cup of tea, but I am confident that if this girl randomly expressed interest to any person on this site that they would capitalize on it for sure. AKA, she's good enough to stick your weenie in.

I have seen her before on YouTube. I think she's under 25 right now. Most men who participate on the SoSuave forums would stick their weenie inside of her. I can't imagine any regular participant on the SoSuave forum committing to her for an extended relationship. Outside of SoSuave forum participants, it's likely she can find a man willing to commit to her because men in general are thirsty for both sex and committed relationships.

 

[CornbreadFed]

At what age do you think that happens for men? 35?

Right now, as a 40 year old man, you'd probably say that the majority of my available women would be single moms. In general, when I do approaches, I tend to approach childless women. Why? It's because I tend to go to places where childless women are when I do in-person approaches. If I used swipe apps, I would probably see more single moms. I rarely encounter single moms out in the wild when I do my approaches.

I would say after age 35 it is over for men unless they are completely fine with transactional relationships or participating in some niche sex group activity. Otherwise, you are going to only appeal to single mommies and the craziest careerist women. You are better off just going on seeking arrangements over the apps because girls put an age filter on the app.

I have seen her before on YouTube. I think she's under 25 right now. Most men who participate on the SoSuave forums would stick their weenie inside of her. I can't imagine any regular participant on the SoSuave forum committing to her for an extended relationship. Outside of SoSuave forum participants, it's likely she can find a man willing to commit to her because men in general are thirsty for both sex and committed relationships.

I agree, but I think that if you are seeing a girl once every week than it is a relationship regardless of an established title. I could see guys on here participating in that and then making a help me topic when the situation implodes.

 

[Dr.Suave]

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So what´s the story? "I got pumped & ghosted by a caroussel of Tyrones"?

 

[All_Kindz_Of_Gainz]

I agree, but I think that if you are seeing a girl once every week than it is a relationship regardless of an established title.

If you are getting what you want, getting the king treatment, doing all you fantasies and as long as you don't get her pregnant or get married, who gives a fvck about some random guy on the internet making a thread complaining about this or that, then jacking off to porn, with the virtue of "hey at least I'm not fvcking a single mum"

 

[SW15]

I would say after age 35 it is over for men unless they are completely fine with transactional relationships or participating in some niche sex group activity. Otherwise, you are going to only appeal to single mommies and the craziest careerist women. You are better off just going on seeking arrangements over the apps because girls put an age filter on the app.

I am 40. I've been 35+ for a while now.

I haven't seen a lot of demand for me from the single mom audience. I have no interest in dating single moms anyway.

More of my interest at 35+ has come from careerist women. The childless audience after 30-35 is somewhat odd as well.

If a 35+ man is on the major swipe apps, he's probably getting interest from similarly aged women. Most men on apps don't get a lot of matches either. With the few matches they get, it is similarly aged women. I can imagine a 35-44 year old man on an app mainly having matches from similarly aged childless career women or single moms.

 

[All_Kindz_Of_Gainz]

I am 40

By 40 I expect to be jacked as fvck. I hope you are making all kindz of gainz.

 

[CornbreadFed]

If you are getting what you want, getting the king treatment, doing all you fantasies and as long as you don't get her pregnant or get married, who gives a fvck about some random guy on the internet making a thread complaining about this or that, then jacking off to porn, with the virtue of "hey at least I'm not fvcking a single mum"

It is your bedroom lol, but I just don't like it when guys are making sweet love to these women more than once a week and coming on the internet and bragging about pumping and dumping these 304s.

I am 40. I've been 35+ for a while now.

I haven't seen a lot of demand for me from the single mom audience. I have no interest in dating single moms anyway.

More of my interest at 35+ has come from careerist women. The childless audience after 30-35 is somewhat odd as well.

If a 35+ man is on the major swipe apps, he's probably getting interest from similarly aged women. Most men on apps don't get a lot of matches either. With the few matches they get, it is similarly aged women. I can imagine a 35-44 year old man on an app mainly having matches from similarly aged childless career women or single moms.

You are probably getting more interest from careerist women because you live in Dallas, Tx. If you lived elsewhere in another environment, you would be screwed.

 

[All_Kindz_Of_Gainz]

I just don't like it when guys are making sweet love to these women more than once a week and coming on the internet and bragging about pumping and dumping these 304s.

Why are you so invested that you "just don't like" in what guys come in here and post any of that $hit?

 

[CornbreadFed]

Why are you so invested that you "just don't like" in what guys come in here and post any of that $hit?

because you are lying to yourself and your audience. What good comes from that?

 

[All_Kindz_Of_Gainz]

because you are lying to yourself and your audience. What good comes from that?

And you're there like the People's Champion, the Defender of the Truth, to make sure they get what hey deserve. Ok

 

[SW15]

So what´s the story? "I got pumped & ghosted by a caroussel of Tyrones"?

Part of her story is that she once worked at Hooters.

You are probably getting more interest from careerist women because you live in Dallas, Tx. If you lived elsewhere in another environment, you would be screwed.

Men who live in some of the biggest metropolitan areas in the USA can more easily avoid single moms and deal with childless careerists.

A childless 30 something/early 40 something isn't an ideal candidate for a dating relationship either.

 

[CornbreadFed]

And you're there like the People's Champion, the Defender of the Truth, to make sure they get what hey deserve. Ok

This has nothing to do with me, this has all to do with you. If you are blatantly lying to everyone then nobody can truly help you when you need help with your situations and you are also giving vulnerable people false information that may damage them.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

So what´s the story? "I got pumped & ghosted by a caroussel of Tyrones"?

She seems happy with her child. Probably her life ambition to become a single mom.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

You know man, if you would pay attention to the successful guys you would actually realize that men are the end choosers not the women

Women will choose a guy in the sense that she will be receptive to him, but finally it is the guy who is choosing as he can accept the courtship process or decline it

As an idea of the woman is mentally ok and not a hoe, a quality guy (that is also at least a bit experienced + ok mentally ) is not as replaceable as you you put it

If you would pay attention yourself, you'd see that life and success are not defined by those who make it, but those who do not; if every man hits the same place, the expectation placed upon the common man rises.

Success is not something just every man can accomplish, it is a burden to be successful because it requires the denial of the common things that those who are not successful flounder and enjoy in, like for example the presence of a woman in the first place.

Only a fool believes he is strengthened by the temptations around him, those same fools are the ones who give definition to what success is and is not, just as you have here; a man who believes a woman to be his purpose can never truly succeed, this is the most basic aspect of game, one you yourself have failed to recognize.

When I say "I viewed a woman as an object" that is exactly what I mean, I viewed a woman as my purpose and was doomed from the start because of it, I assigned her the fate that I chose for her, I assumed I owned her, but we don't own anything there, not even our children, we can only share in ownership at best.

Even the successful man realizes he is only a piece of the whole, whether it be a business he leads, a social circle he inhabits, a woman that looks up to him, it's all the same, just a piece. Any man who thinks himself the whole is the biggest fool of all.