escaleraroyal
Master Don Juan
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never tell how much money u make to a girl and never bring her to the mall...she is gonna ask u to buy her stuffs.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
lesson i learned
- Thread starter escaleraroyal
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
wjh
Master Don Juan
so what did you buy her?
escaleraroyal
Master Don Juan
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just something.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
Next time if she bothers you about buying her something tell her jokingly that you will buy her a thong as long as she trys on a couple first for you first.
wjh
Master Don Juan
just something?!escaleraroyal said:just something.
this girl used you for your wallet. what the hell are you thinking buying her anything?!
wake up! NEVER buy a girl ANYTHING unless she's your LTR or a family member. she hasn't proved herself to you!
tell me, is there a reason why you would buy her anything other than for the fact that she had a vagina? you sucker!
never do this again!
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tell me, for your own sake, what the real lesson here is?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wjh
Master Don Juan
Have you read the DJ Bible?baurman said:Not necessarily true, if you take her out to dinner you pay for her or she'll think you're cheap. If shes a potentoal LTR you pay but not ridiculous things like jewelru and crap.
Eaglecreek
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:cheer: congragulations, here let me give you another rule, never tell anybody how much you earn, it makes people jealous which makes them gossip about you. If you buy somebody a drink, wait till they buy you one back. Some people never will, then you know you found yourself a leech, if they do buy you back then you know you can buy some more, they'll mostly try to get even with you.escaleraroyal said:never tell how much money u make to a girl and never bring her to the mall...she is gonna ask u to buy her stuffs.
Its all about testing people, they test you so you test them. If you don't then you'll just get used...
As a minor suggestion read anti dump in the bible.