"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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escaleraroyal

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never tell how much money u make to a girl and never bring her to the mall...she is gonna ask u to buy her stuffs.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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john paul

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Next time if she bothers you about buying her something tell her jokingly that you will buy her a thong as long as she trys on a couple first for you first.
 

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escaleraroyal said:
just something.
just something?!

this girl used you for your wallet. what the hell are you thinking buying her anything?!

wake up! NEVER buy a girl ANYTHING unless she's your LTR or a family member. she hasn't proved herself to you!

tell me, is there a reason why you would buy her anything other than for the fact that she had a vagina? you sucker!

never do this again!

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tell me, for your own sake, what the real lesson here is?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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baurman

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Not necessarily true, if you take her out to dinner you pay for her or she'll think you're cheap. If shes a potentoal LTR you pay but not ridiculous things like jewelru and crap.
 

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baurman said:
Not necessarily true, if you take her out to dinner you pay for her or she'll think you're cheap. If shes a potentoal LTR you pay but not ridiculous things like jewelru and crap.
Have you read the DJ Bible?
 

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escaleraroyal said:
never tell how much money u make to a girl and never bring her to the mall...she is gonna ask u to buy her stuffs.
:cheer: congragulations, here let me give you another rule, never tell anybody how much you earn, it makes people jealous which makes them gossip about you. If you buy somebody a drink, wait till they buy you one back. Some people never will, then you know you found yourself a leech, if they do buy you back then you know you can buy some more, they'll mostly try to get even with you.
Its all about testing people, they test you so you test them. If you don't then you'll just get used...

As a minor suggestion read anti dump in the bible.
 
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