escaleraroyal
Master Don Juan
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never tell how much money u make to a girl and never bring her to the mall...she is gonna ask u to buy her stuffs.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
lesson i learned
- Thread starter escaleraroyal
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
wjh
Master Don Juan
so what did you buy her?
escaleraroyal
Master Don Juan
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just something.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
Next time if she bothers you about buying her something tell her jokingly that you will buy her a thong as long as she trys on a couple first for you first.
wjh
Master Don Juan
just something?!escaleraroyal said:just something.
this girl used you for your wallet. what the hell are you thinking buying her anything?!
wake up! NEVER buy a girl ANYTHING unless she's your LTR or a family member. she hasn't proved herself to you!
tell me, is there a reason why you would buy her anything other than for the fact that she had a vagina? you sucker!
never do this again!
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tell me, for your own sake, what the real lesson here is?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
wjh
Master Don Juan
Have you read the DJ Bible?baurman said:Not necessarily true, if you take her out to dinner you pay for her or she'll think you're cheap. If shes a potentoal LTR you pay but not ridiculous things like jewelru and crap.
Eaglecreek
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:cheer: congragulations, here let me give you another rule, never tell anybody how much you earn, it makes people jealous which makes them gossip about you. If you buy somebody a drink, wait till they buy you one back. Some people never will, then you know you found yourself a leech, if they do buy you back then you know you can buy some more, they'll mostly try to get even with you.escaleraroyal said:never tell how much money u make to a girl and never bring her to the mall...she is gonna ask u to buy her stuffs.
Its all about testing people, they test you so you test them. If you don't then you'll just get used...
As a minor suggestion read anti dump in the bible.