escaleraroyal
Master Don Juan
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never tell how much money u make to a girl and never bring her to the mall...she is gonna ask u to buy her stuffs.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
lesson i learned
- Thread starter escaleraroyal
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
wjh
Master Don Juan
so what did you buy her?
escaleraroyal
Master Don Juan
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just something.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
Next time if she bothers you about buying her something tell her jokingly that you will buy her a thong as long as she trys on a couple first for you first.
wjh
Master Don Juan
just something?!escaleraroyal said:just something.
this girl used you for your wallet. what the hell are you thinking buying her anything?!
wake up! NEVER buy a girl ANYTHING unless she's your LTR or a family member. she hasn't proved herself to you!
tell me, is there a reason why you would buy her anything other than for the fact that she had a vagina? you sucker!
never do this again!
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tell me, for your own sake, what the real lesson here is?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
wjh
Master Don Juan
Have you read the DJ Bible?baurman said:Not necessarily true, if you take her out to dinner you pay for her or she'll think you're cheap. If shes a potentoal LTR you pay but not ridiculous things like jewelru and crap.
Eaglecreek
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:cheer: congragulations, here let me give you another rule, never tell anybody how much you earn, it makes people jealous which makes them gossip about you. If you buy somebody a drink, wait till they buy you one back. Some people never will, then you know you found yourself a leech, if they do buy you back then you know you can buy some more, they'll mostly try to get even with you.escaleraroyal said:never tell how much money u make to a girl and never bring her to the mall...she is gonna ask u to buy her stuffs.
Its all about testing people, they test you so you test them. If you don't then you'll just get used...
As a minor suggestion read anti dump in the bible.