"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Leon's Monthly Wrap-Up Issue 1

Leon Phelps

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Okay, every so often, i like to post on what ive learned, ive decided since i do it anyways, ill do it by the month, so hear goes February's Wrap Up

Thing 1- Dont get one- itis. Obviously. I would like to take this a bit further. Dont even think about any chicks at all, unless u are dating them. The second you are in your mind "almost dating" a chick, you **** it up. Flirt with every single girl you talk to that is at your standards, even the ones a little less than that. Dont ever analyze what girls say, assume interest.

Thing 2- Get the rest of your life together first. I cant tell you how many times i have ****ed up parts of my life for a chick, and ended up not getting the chick. Girls are the bottom of your priority list, the ****in bottom!

Thing 3- Brothers over Bi*ches. Friends always come before girls, until u are married. Follow this to the end.

Anything anybody has learned this month, say it in this thread.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Danny21682
GREAT POST LEON GREAT POST

*standing ovation*
Bible material?
 

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I definitely agree with the first thing you said about the second you think you are close to dating a chick is the second you f*ck it up. I am going through this right now, and am trying to keep djing as many girls as possible, but its tough man.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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things I've learned this past month-

* not only does eye contact make you look much more confident, but it makes you feel much more confident too. Always look people in the eyes.

* always learn from your experiences and grow as a person

* life is short, so live while you can
 

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Great idea, we should have these more often.

What I learned last month:

Take risks; otherwise nothing happens

Do not write "Jihad" on calculus tests; That's a very stupid risk. I know a lebanese kid who did that.

As far as good connections go, the more comfortable you are talking with people the more comfortable they are talking with you. Don't try too hard or you become desperate.

Don't procrastinate, for opportunities fade away faster than you expect.
 
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