"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Leon's Monthly Wrap-Up Issue 1

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Okay, every so often, i like to post on what ive learned, ive decided since i do it anyways, ill do it by the month, so hear goes February's Wrap Up

Thing 1- Dont get one- itis. Obviously. I would like to take this a bit further. Dont even think about any chicks at all, unless u are dating them. The second you are in your mind "almost dating" a chick, you **** it up. Flirt with every single girl you talk to that is at your standards, even the ones a little less than that. Dont ever analyze what girls say, assume interest.

Thing 2- Get the rest of your life together first. I cant tell you how many times i have ****ed up parts of my life for a chick, and ended up not getting the chick. Girls are the bottom of your priority list, the ****in bottom!

Thing 3- Brothers over Bi*ches. Friends always come before girls, until u are married. Follow this to the end.

Anything anybody has learned this month, say it in this thread.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Danny21682
GREAT POST LEON GREAT POST

*standing ovation*
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Bible material?
 
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I definitely agree with the first thing you said about the second you think you are close to dating a chick is the second you f*ck it up. I am going through this right now, and am trying to keep djing as many girls as possible, but its tough man.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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things I've learned this past month-

* not only does eye contact make you look much more confident, but it makes you feel much more confident too. Always look people in the eyes.

* always learn from your experiences and grow as a person

* life is short, so live while you can
 
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Great idea, we should have these more often.

What I learned last month:

Take risks; otherwise nothing happens

Do not write "Jihad" on calculus tests; That's a very stupid risk. I know a lebanese kid who did that.

As far as good connections go, the more comfortable you are talking with people the more comfortable they are talking with you. Don't try too hard or you become desperate.

Don't procrastinate, for opportunities fade away faster than you expect.
 
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