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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Length of relationship depending on attractiveness?

CherryBreaker

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I was just wondering, it seems that the more attractive a HB is, the shorter her relationship that is until she either matures or runs into a DJ that has major game. I've met quite a few attractive ladies whose relationship rarely passes the year mark and the okay or above average gals seem to stay in relationships longer. I think it relates to maintenance.

I remember asking my ex who's like an HB8 and who had quite a few AFC hearts under her belt how long most of her relationships last and she said like 3 months.

For statistics, how long did your relationships last pre-AFC and please give a HB rating.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CLOONEY

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Hot woman, generally probably do have shorter relationships, because they have no fear of nexting the guy (they know they can find other guys easily). This is why you make them fall in love with you, no matter how hot a girl is, once this happens, they will stay around for a long long time!
 
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Originally posted by CherryBreaker
I was just wondering, it seems that the more attractive a HB is, the shorter her relationship that is until she either matures or runs into a DJ that has major game. I've met quite a few attractive ladies whose relationship rarely passes the year mark and the okay or above average gals seem to stay in relationships longer. I think it relates to maintenance.

I remember asking my ex who's like an HB8 and who had quite a few AFC hearts under her belt how long most of her relationships last and she said like 3 months.

For statistics, how long did your relationships last pre-AFC and please give a HB rating.
Honestly, I think HBs have shorter relationships because they are more attractive, will have more men approach them, and end up having more relationships. Most of the men after them just want to bang them and aren't looking for something serious. Where as the less-attractive women have less men approach them, and the men that do date them are dating them more for their personality than there apperance. Sure, they also want sex but they are more likely after a LTR if they are with the 5/6's.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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griffon65

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Makes sense. Most guys just want sex, attractive or not. If a girl is an 8 or above and is young (like below 22) shes still testing the field. Most good looking guys who have game will get these girls bang em and then move on to the next.

While the less attractive girls are more willing to go for the nice guy who is desperate for a relationship cuz they cant just bang every girl and they end up staying together.
 
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