"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Length of relationship depending on attractiveness?

CherryBreaker

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I was just wondering, it seems that the more attractive a HB is, the shorter her relationship that is until she either matures or runs into a DJ that has major game. I've met quite a few attractive ladies whose relationship rarely passes the year mark and the okay or above average gals seem to stay in relationships longer. I think it relates to maintenance.

I remember asking my ex who's like an HB8 and who had quite a few AFC hearts under her belt how long most of her relationships last and she said like 3 months.

For statistics, how long did your relationships last pre-AFC and please give a HB rating.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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CLOONEY

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Hot woman, generally probably do have shorter relationships, because they have no fear of nexting the guy (they know they can find other guys easily). This is why you make them fall in love with you, no matter how hot a girl is, once this happens, they will stay around for a long long time!
 
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Originally posted by CherryBreaker
I was just wondering, it seems that the more attractive a HB is, the shorter her relationship that is until she either matures or runs into a DJ that has major game. I've met quite a few attractive ladies whose relationship rarely passes the year mark and the okay or above average gals seem to stay in relationships longer. I think it relates to maintenance.

I remember asking my ex who's like an HB8 and who had quite a few AFC hearts under her belt how long most of her relationships last and she said like 3 months.

For statistics, how long did your relationships last pre-AFC and please give a HB rating.
Honestly, I think HBs have shorter relationships because they are more attractive, will have more men approach them, and end up having more relationships. Most of the men after them just want to bang them and aren't looking for something serious. Where as the less-attractive women have less men approach them, and the men that do date them are dating them more for their personality than there apperance. Sure, they also want sex but they are more likely after a LTR if they are with the 5/6's.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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griffon65

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Makes sense. Most guys just want sex, attractive or not. If a girl is an 8 or above and is young (like below 22) shes still testing the field. Most good looking guys who have game will get these girls bang em and then move on to the next.

While the less attractive girls are more willing to go for the nice guy who is desperate for a relationship cuz they cant just bang every girl and they end up staying together.
 
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