"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have a question about strategy.

When you try to pick up a women from anyplace you need to have a situation where you will see that women in the same place for a few times or she will be there for a few hours where you can make ample rapport.

I know that the great experts can create good rapport in fifteen minutes but for the rest of us, I need more time, to make the chick feel comfortable with me.

Like a bus stop or a bookstore or on a line at a store are not good places for me to meet women because what the hell are you going to say to them, that wont be an obvious pickup attempt which in that case they shut you down.

Clubs are all physical

where could I go where you where kind of forced to interact and build rapport over time?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tim Hortons :D
Stores...Malls...Observing over a week routines of people, and purposely advancing. Scout it all out :)
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Just because you have a lot of time on your hands, it doesn't mean that she does to. Think about yourself as trying to make a sale. Would you buy something from a person who takes forever and a day to convince you to buy? If you do buy it, do you really want it or do you just feel sorry for the guy?

Quit enforcing your shortcoming of building rapport. Learn how to do it quickly. It'll work in any situation and d@mn near any circumstance.
 
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